I sympathise! I hate shopping for clothes nowadays, and because I find a lot of modern styles don’t suit my shape (wide trousers - especially cropped ones, when you’re short legged or ultra skinny trousers when I’m small but curvy). I tend to panic buy when something looks ok and fits. Unfortunately, despite trying to stick to a blues colour palette, I have also ended up with a wardrobe that is definitely not capsule! It isn’t that the colours don’t co-ordinate but the tops are the wrong length or shape for skirts, or only go with full length trousers, shoes not right heel etc etc. Sadly, I’ve come to the conclusion I’m just not good with clothes. Some people manage to always look so well put together.
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(45 Posts)I have so many clothes but nothing to wear. Such a vast assortment of tops that don't go with trousers. I have eight pairs of jeans and after looking at other items, the jeans go on. When I looked at things to dispise of because I have too much, many of the clothes are new or newish but I shouldn't have bought them, what waste of money sending them to a charity shop.
I never used to have this many clothes when I was working, a couple of suits, different tops and a few sheath dresses and I felt I always looked stylish. It is since being retired and shopping much more I have developed this bad habit.
Any ideas of a capsule wardrobe for retired women.
I have also developed this bad habit.. always buying clothes but nothing to wear. Think my problem is I see something I like but then don’t have anything to wear with it. Also shoes are a problem as I can no longer wear heels nothing seems to look right with flat shoes. Fashion is also much more casual and I like to look smart. If you look at most ladies of a certain age I think we all have the same problem
I think I need to do a big throwing out as my clothes have accumulated over the last 40 years. I haven't changed size. The trouble is, I never know what I might need one day.
Basically, I've lost interest in clothes. I wish we had a sort of school uniform then I wouldn't have to think about them.
Sheilasue You are an inspiration! I shall copy you! Especially as I'm an apple too! Now I know what I need, thanks to you, the rest can go to charity, or the dump.
Freedom! I love chucking stuff out! Just hadn't got round to my clothes - I wasn't interested and didn't know what to do.
Hang on while I just copy down what you have in your wardrobe.... and THANKS!
You haven't got any tips for other things have you? I would like to thin out my books.....
Eglantine21 Do I understand correctly, that you completely re-stock your wardrobe each season? It sounds as if you choose a different colour scheme each year, buy the clothes in it, wear it, throw it out and start again the next year with another choice of colours. Isn't that extremely expensive?
I had to "prune" my wardrobe when I moved (downsized) as I didn't have room for everything. I live in jeans in winter & shorts/cropped trousers/white jeans in summer. I have some lovely blouses/shirts & sweaters.
I have some nice jackets & scarves. I do possess a black skirt & smart black trousers. Also a couple of white skirts & smart white trousers. Shoes are a problem due to health problems so I tend to wear trainers most of the time although I have some lovely shoes (all flat).
Luckylegs I am just the same as you but wish I could be more like baubles. The problem is it would involve getting rid of an awful lot of ‘stuff’ and then replacing it and I just don’t have the stamina. :-)
3 Wardrobes and just me. They are all too good to throw out though. Went to meet my cousin over from Canada today, never met her before, found this CC denim suit, skirt and jacket. Really thought it was great and I looked good in it. CC has gone now so I won't be getting rid of it. I did throw a suitcase out last week with 4 coats in it. Good wool coats, but I still have more than enough.
I have the same problem and no answers. It has made me feel better to know I am not alone. Does anyone else buy a new outfit, get home and discover that they already have at least one very similar outfit in the wardrobe?! DUH!
luzdoh I don’t find it expensive because I usually shop in lower to medium price stores. I’m a great fan of Sainsbury, Asda and a lovely little shop near me that gets all its stock from Italy. My linen trousers always come from there.
Because I just have a few clothes each season I get full wear out of them. It works for me. I’d hate to keep getting the same things out year after year.
I’m determined to lower the thermostat this coming winter so I’ve just bought 5 woolly jumpers in the Next clearance sale £10.00 each and they look nice and not at all boring.
So I think I’ve got a bargain, most of my new wardrobe came from the Next Clearance department, and a couple of bits from Sainsburys and Matalan.
Mind you I’m still wearing T shirts from 15 years ago.
Interested in someone mentioning the blog Susan over 60 - I remember trying a while ago to find blogs that gave fashion advice for older women. I found a few, but none of them hit the mark for me. I’m amazed that some of the blog writers put their pics up! I’ve looked at Vanity and me, The pouting pensioner ( she’s quite funny), Mummabstylish (awful, IMO), etc. Anyone found any good ones?
I like skinny jeans - or crops now in the summer - and tunics from White Stuff, Fat face, Adini, etc (from their sales / when they have discount codes!},
I guess it’s dressing to suit what you’re doing too - a lot of the bloggers are clearly not dealing with sticky fingered little ones, or doing mucky gardening!
Ahh LL9 but have you ever bought a top that you know you have something in the wardrobe that it will match like a dream and it turns out to be the same top??
Yes!
I too find it difficult to give away expensive items which have only been worm once eg weddings etc however I have recently started to sell them on eBay after seeing a dress I have selling for over £100. My problem.is I have lots of wall to wall wardrobes so storage is not an issue I am slowly emptying them of all the work suits ball gowns etc which I needed whilst working
I think we are all guilty of splashing out on an outfit which we only wear once and paying a lot less for our everyday clothes.
Maybe we should do it th other way round and that way we will get out money's worth out of our clothes instead of having expensive outfits just sitting in the cupboard.
Like Eglantine21 I plan for each year a set of colours and buy accordingly, then don’t go shopping for clothes in between.
I love dresses and skirts as well as M&S straight leg leggings, they are so comfy. I have trousers, leggings, a drapey long cardigans in navy and a skirt. This year for summer I am adding pale blue, green and teal mostly in tops and dresses to the navy or black basics. Mostly M&S, Seasalt, Maine.
I wear lace up comfy shoes in winter/transitional weather, navy raincoat if it’s raining and now for summer, black sandals. Mostly Hotter.
Oh and chunky wooden necklace or two which go with several outfits.
Apricity, I like your style plan. Having recently retired, I’m really reluctant to get rid of the rows of clothes which I love but which realistically I know that I am very unlikely to wear again. I love the idea of a capsule wardrobe of clothes without pattern, with scarves and jewellery to add interest. So far, I’ve been gradually giving to charity shops. I need now to limit the colours of clothes I buy.
Thank you Allegretto, the plan works for me. My pants are all denim, beige or black so pretty much all my tops and bottoms work together. Patterns quickly date clothes so buying plains enables things to be updated with mix and match accessories. The general style guide is a larger top (eg tunic) is balanced by narrow pants and a small or short top with wider pants. What works best depends on your height and body shape.
For me (5'1") tunic length (mid thigh) tops are great as they hide all the bulgy bits and you soon discover that a girl can never have too many scarves. I limit myself to necklaces and earrings only and often buy interesting necklaces on my travels. They are good small travel souvenirs and often make interesting talking points especially with my granddaughters. I used to wear longer earrings but found they were a health hazard when my gcs were little as they tended to grab them and rip out the old earlobes.
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