Actually I think you sound beautiful with many positives
I have very fine Med blonde hair lucky not to have any greys I uses a touch of silver shampoo to keep it bright and if I do dye I use Avon dyes as they cover well look natural and are gentle. They do a lovely dark blonde or med ach blonde that will just cover the grey and freshen your natural colour and give you lovely shine and they are always on offer.
Have you considered updos putting your hair up can give the illusion of thickness again there are loads of Bloggs on You tube I use pretty hairy clips to hold the short wishy bits into place but soft and wispy is better than tight and prim. There are loads of products such as spays gels and moose that will give the illusion of body again Avon have an excellent range. You can also buy pieces but I have never found one in a mid-blonde that works .
I cut my own fringe in there are lots of blogs on you tube that show you how including celebrity hair dressers. The trick is to cut in, not along to keep it soft and wispy . MY friend got her daughter to cut the first fringe in but now maintains it herself. It is really easy as long as you keep it soft and wispy. I roll my hair with spongy rollers sometimes to give it body
. I do not fillers have I use make up contour and highlighter to give me definition, again this takes time to get right but there are loads of blogs or go to a beauty counter. I look at young girls see how they do there make up then just do it myself I take it down a bit as some young girls wear loads the trick is keep it soft and eyes Smokey .Eye brows will give you definition I use Primark eyebrowed definer in Dark blonde I use setting spray to keep them in place .
the trick is to use brushes and blend I also wear false eyelashes in natural to give my eyes definition. Lis stick will help give colour and definition and take the eye away from the my jowls to your face. I am blonde and fair so I tend to wear pinks, plums and coppers but do wear red now and then
As for clothes I shop around and look in younger shops or shops that sell trendy but appropriate clothes as well as high tend such a Dorthey Perkins, New look Zara, H&M. George and Matalan all sell trendy but classic bits, Wallis and Joules are ok to but can be a bit prim it’s a fine line I think the key is keeping things simple and striking I wear black but also lots of bright colours too. I shop in charity shops as well to find labels I couldn’t otherwise afford.
. I wear high-waisted skinny jeans, and trendy tops for clausal with trendy trainer like pumps mostly from New Look I stick to classic jackets and very simple dresses or skirts for work and slim fitting work trousers with crisp shirts.
I don’t go to the gym but I maintain my size 8-10 figure by walking to the train station to work every day and back about 7 miles a day I also fast two days a week which makes me feel more healthy than I ever did before but I know that not possible for everyone so I am not suggesting you do that but for me it works on the 2 days I fast I am running around I just don’t notice I havent eaten I eat a small health meal when I get in and drinks loads all day. Perhaps your doctor good advice you on Weight flu fluctuation. I do have an hour class figure and Find simple body comp dresses to the knee look lovely I pop smart jackets over to hide any tummy issues.
If you live anywhere near south East England, I would come out shopping with you and help you find a style that suits you. Do you have a daughter or a friend that could do that ?
You sound to me like you have lost your confidence This happened to me when my husband died. I found by just looking around me at other smart women my age, checking out blogs and mags I soon found my style again.
Actually I think you sound beautiful with many positives but you have claerly lost your confidence and feel lost in the style zone.
I have very fine Med blonde hair, lucky not to have any greys I uses a touch of silver shampoo to keep it bright and if I do dye I use Avon dyes as they cover well look natural and are gentle. They do a lovely dark blonde or med ash blonde that will just cover the grey and freshen your natural colour and give you lovely shine and they are always on offer.
Have you considered updos putting your hair up can give the illusion of thickness again there are loads of Bloggs on You tube to help. I use pretty hairy clips to hold the short wishy bits into place but soft and wispy is better than tight and prim. There are loads of products such as sprays gels and mousse that will give the illusion of body, again Avon have an excellent range. You can also buy hair pieces but I have never found one in a mid-blonde that works .
I cut my own fringe in, again there are lots of blogs on you tube that show you how including celebrity hair dressers. The trick is to cut in, not along to keep it soft and wispy . My friend loved mine so much she got her daughter to cut the first fringe in but now maintains it herself. It is really easy as long as you keep it soft and wispy. I roll my hair with spongy rollers sometimes to give it body
I do not fillers and never would, I use make up I use contour and highlighter to give me definition, again this takes time to get right but there are loads of blogs or go to a beauty counter. I look at young girls see how they do there make up then just do it myself I take it down a bit as some young girls wear loads, the trick is keep it soft blended and eyes Smokey. Eye brows will give you definition I use Primark eyebrowed definer in Dark blonde I use setting spray to keep them in place.
The trick is to use brushes and blend I also wear false eyelashes in natural to give my eyes definition. Lip stick will help give colour and definition to your face and take the eye away from the "jowls" . I am blonde and fair so I tend to wear pinks, plums and coppers but do wear red now and then
As for clothes I shop around and look in younger shops or shops that sell trendy but appropriate clothes as well as high tend such a Dorthey Perkins, New look Zara, H&M. George and Matalan all sell trendy but classic bits, Wallis and Joules are ok too but can be a bit prim, it’s a fine line I think the key is keeping things simple and striking I wear black but also lots of bright colours too I sometimes just use colour to pop, so yesterday I had a simple black dress on with a bright pink jacket then everything else black apart from bright pink earrings. A bright jacket can take the eye away from the tummy. I today I have completely black on with a floral shoe. I shop in charity shops as well to find labels I couldn’t otherwise afford.
I wear high-waisted skinny jeans, and trendy tops for clausal with trendy trainer like pumps mostly from New Look. I stick to classic jackets and very simple dresses or pencil ( stretchy ) skirts for work and slim fitting work trousers with crisp shirts.
I don’t go to the gym but I maintain my size 8-10 figure by walking to the train station to work every day and back about 7 miles a day. I also fast two days a week which makes me feel healthier than I ever did before. However I know that not possible for every but I works for me I on days I fast am running around and busy, I just don’t notice I havent eaten I eat a small health meal when I get in and drinks loads all day. Perhaps your doctor could advice you on Weight fluctuation. I too have an hour class figure and Find simple body comp dresses to the knee look lovely I pop smart jackets over to hide any tummy issues. High waisted jeans are wonderful too.
If you live anywhere near south East England, I would come out shopping with you and help you find a style that suits you. Do you have a daughter or a friend that could do that?