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Outfit for special event - ideas please

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NotSpaghetti Thu 16-Feb-23 11:34:47

Can I have some brand suggestions to look at please?

It's a formal wedding and I'm pretty round with a big bust 🙄
I found some nice things a few months ago following a discussion on here but my ipad has deleted my open tabs and I'd not "saved" them.
Ideas very welcome.
Thank you all!

NotSpaghetti Thu 16-Feb-23 23:31:04

Ha ha Wyllow3
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Blossoming Thu 16-Feb-23 23:37:28

Sorry Wyllow3 blush

AussieGran59 Fri 17-Feb-23 00:04:03

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Debbi58 Fri 17-Feb-23 00:08:33

Next Online he

Debbi58 Fri 17-Feb-23 00:10:19

Next Online have a huge selection , they sell lots of brands besides their own

GrammyGrammy Fri 17-Feb-23 09:21:49

www.dorothyperkins.com/strap-detail-midi-dress/BQQ02538.html?color=156

NotSpaghetti Fri 17-Feb-23 09:38:34

The Suzy Hamilton dresses are fabulous but I'm too big for them, unfortunately.

I'm waiting to be "allowed in" to see the Facebook pages.

I've looked through Next and Monsoon now. So thank you.

Coast has a "maybe" or two - I'm such an awkward shape though grin

I've yet to go back to Bombshell to look at new season and although the Dorothy Perkins dress is not me I'll have a look at what else they offer.
I'm looking for something really quite "special".
There is SO much polyester out there - I was amazed!

MawtheMerrier Fri 17-Feb-23 10:04:59

Even if you are not the “MOB” , Phase Eight do some nice dresses, some with jackets in their MOB range

Sarah75 Fri 17-Feb-23 10:21:33

AussieGran59

Whew! Some lovely suggestions but the prices of some made my eyes water.
I hope you find something beautiful that doesn’t cost the earth!

I’m so glad you said that! I was beginning to think I was odd being astonished at some of the prices!

Davida1968 Fri 17-Feb-23 10:35:39

I'm with Norah & other GNs - definitely black trousers and a nice top! (Everyone should be looking at the bride, anyway!) I don't possess a dress.....

NotSpaghetti Fri 17-Feb-23 10:55:53

Thank you Sarah, Maw, Davida and others..
I'm not usually a mother-of-the -bride outfit person to be honest and wouldn't be comfortable in some more "traditional" outfits. I don't like many synthetic fabrics and find synthetic gauzy ones the worst. Lots of lace is very poor quality unless you pay an arm and a leg...

I wore an Ann Balon 3 piece (skirt, camisole and jacket to one daughter's wedding and was able to wear those pieces separately for years. I wore a nice top, with crop trousers to another (with a great hat) - but this one is a very "fancy" do... and I'm stumped to be honest.
There will be a lot of very well outfitted guests there. I don't want to "let the side down" but can't justify buying one-use-only items.

Maybe I need a crash diet? Would that do some bust/belly shrinking I wonder? grin
I do appreciate the suggestions.
Thank you all.

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 17-Feb-23 11:54:23

This place sells Ann Balon, seems they might do special orders.
www.brigidfoley.co.uk/search.php?mode=search&page=1&keep_https=yes

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 17-Feb-23 11:55:46

Or buy direct www.annbalon.com/buy-now/

Marydoll Fri 17-Feb-23 12:14:46

Thanks for all the links folks!

I have spents ages browsing. Instead of cleaning the cooker.

NotSpaghetti Fri 17-Feb-23 12:36:46

I have a local shop who does Ann Balon too Germanshepherdsmum and they do come up a lot on ebay at a much better price.
I rather thought I might like something different for this - but maybe I should take a look...
They use a lot of viscose lace which is very heavy and not easy to put holes in (!) even if you ate a bit on the clumsy side like me. They do wash well too.
I have worn my lacy jacket with jeans and capri type trousers quite a lot. I wondered about dying my existing outfit but I'm too fat for it now! hmm

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 17-Feb-23 13:17:46

I was just thinking that you’d got a lot of wear out of your other AB outfit and you know their sizing and quality - and you certainly wouldn’t be letting the side down!

Dee1012 Fri 17-Feb-23 13:28:08

Not sure if Ghost would fit the bill?
www.ghost.co.uk/clothing/dresses/midi#?viewAll=true

NotSpaghetti Fri 17-Feb-23 14:14:56

I think I may suggest Ghost to my middle daughter. Sadly I'm too fat!

NotSpaghetti Fri 17-Feb-23 14:15:16

Thank you though Dee

MawtheMerrier Fri 17-Feb-23 14:21:04

Just a thought - had you considered “renting” ?
If it’s good enough for Carrie Johnson…….
Why not Google m I know there are a few agencies who rent designer outfits for around three figures

FannyCornforth Fri 17-Feb-23 14:21:33

NS don’t you just hate it when XL is a 16 and it goes no further! 🙄

MawtheMerrier Fri 17-Feb-23 14:22:42

My Wardrobe HQ
www.mywardrobehq.com

Try these people

62Granny Fri 17-Feb-23 14:45:15

Would you pay ÂŁ800+ for a dress honestly!! Now even as the MoB.
I quite like Roman and Klass, but was in Next yesterday and they had some lovely floaty dresses and separates ready for the " wedding season"

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 17-Feb-23 14:57:15

It depends on what you can afford 62Granny. There’s nothing wrong in doing so if you have the money.

NotSpaghetti Fri 17-Feb-23 17:49:06

MawtheMerrier

My Wardrobe HQ
www.mywardrobehq.com

Try these people

Not much in my size but will ask my daughter where she uses for weddings etc.
Good idea.