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M & S knickers why can’t they leave well alone?

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Primrose53 Fri 21-Apr-23 21:50:20

Why do they have to keep changing things? I have been wearing their midi pants for years. Nice quality, nice designs, comfortable, wash well. buy 3 get 4th free. They used to come in plain colours with a wide lace insert at legs. They were called supersoft or something.

A couple of years ago they kept the style but changed to patterns. No problem. Went in today, no midis. Found an assistant who said they are now called high rise shorts. Boring colours but she assured me sizing was the same.

The lady on the till listened to me when I told her I was very disappointed that they have to keep changing things and she said “if I had a pound for every lady who has been in and said they want the midis back I would be a rich lady but they don’t listen to us.” I came home and measured them against my midis and they are considerably smaller so no good at all. It’s a 40 mile round trip for me to return them and I do expect they will charge me postage if I have to return them online which isn’t fair.

It used to be the case that M & S listened to what customers and staff said but apparently no longer. Mind you I think their standards have dropped throughout the store. We bought lunch in there and the girl taking our order was chewing gum the whole time we spoke. another older member of staff was clearing tables and looked dreadful with huge, ugly tattoos all over her bare legs. Disappointed with my shopping trip today.

Calendargirl Fri 21-Apr-23 22:01:24

M&S, along with lots of other things nowadays, just isn’t what it was.

It’s their bras that I find they keep changing, you find a style that you like, next time you try to buy the same, it’s disappeared.

Shopping for most things is no pleasure.

Hetty58 Fri 21-Apr-23 22:11:53

I think they stretch a little with wear - so if compared with older midi ones, maybe they're not 'considerably smaller'?

I'd complain by phone or online, anyway, as you were reassured by the assistant that the sizing was the same. They should offer to post replacements to you.

mummytummy Sat 22-Apr-23 04:45:30

For me it’s their bra’s, each bra appears to be sized differently, can’t just go and get different styles same size 🤬 I also have to buy bra extenders as they are all too short across the back..

I’m thinking of buying/trying those one size bra’s that fasten at the front, anyone tried them?

Do Playtext or Triumph still exist? 😂

aggie Sat 22-Apr-23 06:07:44

I dont think you can return knickers

BlueBalou Sat 22-Apr-23 06:15:41

I no longer buy my knickers at M&S, John Lewis’ are infinitely better both quality-wise and style.
Their ‘Everyday’ range beats M&S any day.

BlueBalou Sat 22-Apr-23 06:16:58

Oops! ‘ Anyday’
www.johnlewis.com/browse/women/womens-lingerie-underwear/womens-knickers-briefs/john-lewis-anyday/_/N-fljZo4yo

Susan56 Sat 22-Apr-23 06:45:29

We ordered a pair of shoes for DH from M and S.They are the same style and size he has had several times before.They arrived yesterday and don’t fit🤦🏼‍♀️

LRavenscroft Sat 22-Apr-23 06:50:14

Although more expensive I buy Sloggi a size larger and Triumph Doreen Bras. They last for years and are really comfortable and good quality. I agree with you about Marks and that is why I left them.

fancythat Sat 22-Apr-23 06:51:48

I dont doubt what everyone is saying. I feel for you.

But for me, I found their bra change better. No wire now.
I end up keeping buying prodominately the same sort no matter how many years pass, and how many styles I try on, with and without a bra fitting person.
But this last time, it has no wire. And is better than it was. The bra fitting person said the style I choose is always their best seller. Which is why I can keep buying it. And she said that they have redesigned it now, with a lot of thought and expertise.

Just thought I ought to mention it.

Calendargirl Sat 22-Apr-23 07:04:11

Which bra fancythat?

fancythat Sat 22-Apr-23 07:13:19

www.marksandspencer.com/total-support-embroidered-full-cup-bra-b-g/p/clp20032770?color=OPALINE#intid=plpnav_pid_pg1pip7g4r1c2

Calendargirl Sat 22-Apr-23 07:14:24

Thanks fancythat.

Kim19 Sat 22-Apr-23 07:17:13

I'm with LR on this. Even though Sloggis are initially more expensive (less so buy 3 get one free) they last ad infinitum. Ditto Triumph Doreen.

CV2020 Sat 22-Apr-23 07:22:33

Totally agree. I stopped buying underwear in M&S many many years ago. The quality of the cotton packs of high leg knickers deteriorated very quickly. The went grey in the wash. As for their bras, I used to always buy them then could not get a single bra to fit me. This was over 20 years ago.
I buy knickers in Sainsbury’s. I buy my bras from Triumph.
Hardly ever buy any clothing either also for many years.

Chardy Sat 22-Apr-23 07:44:41

Bought a pack of M&S knickers in April, they said the were all the same size, but they weren't. Some pairs were clearly bigger than others, some smaller. Some went in the bin.

Froglady Sat 22-Apr-23 07:55:29

I always buy knickers and bras from M & S and have no complaints.
I get measured at M & S for my bra (as I'm on a fairly strict diet so my bra size keeps changing) and I use the same lady to measure me who's measured me for over 20 years now.

Dickens Sat 22-Apr-23 08:34:06

I believe the 'problem' with M&S is that it's attempting to attract shoppers from all demographics and age groups. There's not enough money to be made from focusing on its previous core demographic.

I used to shop there regularly in the late 60s early 70s - the quality and durability of their clothing was exemplary.

Then I moved abroad. On one of my return visits to the UK I bought some sweaters and trousers. They didn't stand up to the (gentle) wash programme. They were just poor quality (made cheaply in Asia).

I've never set foot in their clothing department since.

Grammaretto Sat 22-Apr-23 09:03:16

I'm surprised Dickens about trying to appeal to a younger clientele.
We are getting older but will always need underwear.

My gripe is the trousers with tiny pockets and a bit short in the leg.
I'm average height so don't go for long leg but perhaps I should!

Seems to me the styles change for the sake of change and the say so of a young designer straight out of college who needs to make an impression. Why listen to us?
#cynicaloldwoman

Wyllow3 Sat 22-Apr-23 09:13:13

Totally wonderful bra from M n S....not to everyones taste but most comfy ever....just enter in search engine
Flexifit™ Non Wired Crop Top

An yet another so frustrated by non midi's, as the shorts style do not fit the same. I have gone to Amazon and was delighted to find the ideal midi comfy and pretty - lots of choice if you search in there.
Sloggi do a good midi knicker but just white.

Hope M n S see sense and return to a midi range.

MerylStreep Sat 22-Apr-23 09:15:54

Calendargirl
When M&S end a line EBay sellers buy up this stock. There are some real bargains.
I always look there first.

MerylStreep Sat 22-Apr-23 09:20:22

Here’s an idea of what’s on eBay.

www.ebay.co.uk/b/Bras-Bra-Sets/63853?Band%2520Size=38&Brand=Marks%2520and%2520Spencer&rt=nc

henetha Sat 22-Apr-23 09:28:13

I've gradually replaced all my M&S knickers with Sloggi which are so much better. Expensive, but I did it gradually. I have Sloggi in various colours too.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 22-Apr-23 09:47:38

I must have a dozen pairs of M & S Jeans, different styles, different colours along with their denim shorts. Really good fit, wash well and have kept their colours

Have lots of their T shirts and some linen shirts for every day wear, again they wash, iron and wear well.

M & S gym wear (including sports bras) are reasonably priced and so comfy.

Cannot comment on their underwear as I buy elsewhere.

Calendargirl Sat 22-Apr-23 10:39:13

Thanks MerylStreep