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Is “sexy” what you want to be in your mid-80’s?

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RosiesMaw2 Sat 14-Sept-24 11:43:01

My heart sank when I saw the headline “Dame Prue Leith sexed -up”
Dame Prue Leith has been “sexed up” to walk the runway in a latex dress for avant-garde eco-designers Vin + Omi
The Bake Off judge, 84, appeared in the duo’s 20th anniversary show, Moxie, in Kensington as part of London Fashion Week wearing a black latex dress with red stitching and matching evening gloves
Speaking before the show, Omi told The Telegraph: “You’re going to see Prue Leith like you’ve never seen her before, not in your wildest dreams.
“. Even her husband doesn’t know what she’s wearing, he’s going to be shocked but he’s going to love it. We’re gonna sex her up. “
He added that Dame Prue, a close friend of the pair, is “game for anything
Laying my cards on the table
1) I don’t think black latex is “sexy” - I think it looks tarty and that is NOT the same thing
2) black and scarlet are such an unimaginative and hackneyed combination if looking glamorous is the intention
3) with trainers?
4) I think Prue Leith has her own, colourful style. I love the big glasses, the bold necklaces and adventurous colours - she generally looks fantastic.
“Sexed up” is not her style and it depresses me that yet another man seems to equate looking sexy with looking attractive.
🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Icandoit Sun 15-Sept-24 10:20:35

I give her 10/10 for doing this show, she is a very attractive women especially for her age. I would LOVE someone to glam me up, hair, make-up, lovely white teeth all the things that most of us are never able to have the opportunity to do. Well done to her I say. You only lives once. grin

loopyloo Sun 15-Sept-24 10:21:21

I might try a modified copy of that from what I have in the shed.
A black teashirt with pegs and lots of black eye makeup.
Will send a pic if I do!

VioletSky Sun 15-Sept-24 10:27:30

I actually think it suits her, good for her!

loopyloo Sun 15-Sept-24 10:42:56

Exactly, Icandoit.
Have made a start by trying on my new Roman dresses. Might send the black one back, or I might glam it up +++.

Galaxy Sun 15-Sept-24 10:46:39

Its fashion influenced by porn. Depends what you think about that I suppose.

loopyloo Sun 15-Sept-24 10:49:11

The teeth is the most difficult and expensive thing.
Had hair cut for first time in 27 weeks. So pleased.

Oreo Sun 15-Sept-24 11:12:28

LucyAnna2

That outfit looks sad and unattractive to me - looks as if she’s auditioning to play a woodlouse in an avant garde play……

Why anyone would want to make her ‘look sexy’ I don’t know, but, give her love of vibrant colours, a slinky sequinned rainbow dress might have hit the mark?

Not keen on her ‘Kettlewell’ look either - colours too garish and too much going on!

Your first sentence had me spluttering coffee everywhere😂

Oreo Sun 15-Sept-24 11:13:19

It’s a NO from me as well, it just looks laughable.

rafichagran Sun 15-Sept-24 11:14:53

VioletSky

I actually think it suits her, good for her!

I agree with this. My wardrobe is 90% black, I feel comfortable with the way I dress.
I think Pru just did this as a one off as her wardrobe is usually colourful. I cannot take it too seriously ti be honest.

DamaskRose Sun 15-Sept-24 11:27:23

This was a fashion show for goodness sake, she won’t be wearing it in Waitrose.
I don’t think anybody looks good in leather (or whatever this outfit is made from) apart from on their feet, or hands.
I like PL in the Kettlewell stuff she wears but I prefer something a little more subtle.

VioletSky Sun 15-Sept-24 11:28:19

Fashion shows are meant to be art

eazybee Sun 15-Sept-24 12:36:39

She reminds me of the models of Vivienne Westwood; she was not pleased when they appeared on Wogan many years ago and the audience collapsed with laughter.
She may have been iconic, but I don't think her clothes flattered many women.

David49 Sun 15-Sept-24 12:46:48

This is what sexy at 80 looks like

Marydoll Sun 15-Sept-24 12:48:14

David49

This is what sexy at 80 looks like

Absolutely not!

paddyann54 Sun 15-Sept-24 12:53:35

Allira if I had an event where it would work then probably but I wouldn,t wear it with trainers it would be very high heels and multiple silver bangles.I used to wear a similar dress in the 80s but it was silver ,I loved it.As to being sexy ? Well isn,t that like beauty,in the eye of the beholder and I know my OH tells me I.m sexy. 50 years after we met .I,m certainly not offended by it why shouldn,t women be sexy at 70 or 80 ?

AreWeThereYet Sun 15-Sept-24 13:24:04

Kate1949

My point is it doesn't matter if she looks awful or dreadful. She's 84 and she's done something different and probably for her, exciting. Good for her.

Agree.

Freya5 Sun 15-Sept-24 13:36:52

Sexy that is not. Looks more like plastic bags sewn together. Still bet she had fun on the day, and wonder if she now thinks "what on earth was I doing"!

Allira Sun 15-Sept-24 13:53:19

paddyann54

Allira if I had an event where it would work then probably but I wouldn,t wear it with trainers it would be very high heels and multiple silver bangles.I used to wear a similar dress in the 80s but it was silver ,I loved it.As to being sexy ? Well isn,t that like beauty,in the eye of the beholder and I know my OH tells me I.m sexy. 50 years after we met .I,m certainly not offended by it why shouldn,t women be sexy at 70 or 80 ?

Yes, I think the trainers detracted from it somewhat, paddyann.

Personally I wouldn't have worn it, and it's not my idea of 0f sexy but I might wear the trainers 😃

I agree re sexy, that's a matter of opinion.

David49 Sun 15-Sept-24 13:59:16

Marydoll

David49

This is what sexy at 80 looks like

Absolutely not!

It’s sad that you don’t acknowledge Tina’s achievement despite all the adversity she had, she could still put on a world class performance at 80.

Namsnanny Sun 15-Sept-24 14:06:23

Imv the designers misused the word sexy.

The design quite clearly was influenced by the BDSM scene.

Not much use of imagination or innovation.

Come on, black and red? Hackneyed.

So full Mark's for getting the most attention for the least cognative outlay.

Norah Sun 15-Sept-24 14:08:44

Allira

paddyann54

Allira if I had an event where it would work then probably but I wouldn,t wear it with trainers it would be very high heels and multiple silver bangles.I used to wear a similar dress in the 80s but it was silver ,I loved it.As to being sexy ? Well isn,t that like beauty,in the eye of the beholder and I know my OH tells me I.m sexy. 50 years after we met .I,m certainly not offended by it why shouldn,t women be sexy at 70 or 80 ?

Yes, I think the trainers detracted from it somewhat, paddyann.

Personally I wouldn't have worn it, and it's not my idea of 0f sexy but I might wear the trainers 😃

I agree re sexy, that's a matter of opinion.

I love the trainers, wear many colours of Chuck's.

I agree that sexy is a matter of opinion - only two opinions matter, my husband's and mine - no worry, we're pleased each to the others looks.

Allira Sun 15-Sept-24 14:15:44

I'm not as old as Prue but that outfit doesn't look comfortable to wear for any age group.
I do like comfy.

Frenchgalinspain Sun 15-Sept-24 14:18:54

Poppyred

I don’t like her, but think she looks good in whatever she wears. Good head of hair and nice teeth. Trying new things keeps you young!

For this lady´s age, she looks fabulous, and is lucky with a great head of hair and nice teeth .. Good genetics ..

I think she looks vibrant.
(Not my color palette, however, lovely on her). I have never seen or heard of this lady before today.

Most women her age wear house dresses and slippers and are overweight and look horrendous and unkept as they do not go to the hairdresser and wear any good quality cosmetics.

Frenchgalinspain Sun 15-Sept-24 14:20:30

David49

This is what sexy at 80 looks like

Tina Turner was a stunningly sexy woman .. And phenomenal vocalist and dancer.

Kim19 Sun 15-Sept-24 14:23:26

Eye of the beholder and all that, David, but I see where you're coming from. Nice one.