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Ugly prom dress

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Bowdie Thu 15-May-25 22:20:57

My granddaughter is going to her final school year prom (when did start these American traditions?). She found a dress she really liked in a charity shop and I bought it for her- she absolutely adores it but it's really really ugly! It looks like an ugly Disney princess dress. It's all bows and flounces. I've not said I don't like it. We have a spare which she quite likes which looks incredible on her but she adores the ugly one. I don't want the rest of the school laughing at her. I'm not alone thinking this- all her aunts and her mum thinks the same. She does have a very quirky fashion sense (she has ASD which I think contributes to this) but it's not laughable. Id be devastated for her if she was made to feel bad for wearing it. Should I say anything?!

Allira Sun 18-May-25 10:42:32

Seakay

I found this article - lots of prom dresses with ruffles. Be grateful she doesn't want the slinky and slit to the thigh options!
www.redcarpetready.co.uk/10-of-the-hottest-prom-dress-styles-right-now/

Ooh, I like that dark red one.

Am I too old and fat to wear it?

Grandma70s Sun 18-May-25 10:54:06

Thank heavens there were no proms in my day - or my children’s day, for that matter. It seems so competitive.

At university we had formal hall dances which were sort of equivalent, and more or less compulsory, awkward if you didn’t have a particular boyfriend to partner you. We used to have a prize for “Going to the formal with the worst man”.

Allira Sun 18-May-25 11:05:50

Our girls' school had an end of year dance with the boys' school.
It was always quite an awkward occasion, boys sat at one end of the hall and girls at the other for the first half of the evening before a boy might pluck up courage to ask a girl to dance!

Bukkie Sun 18-May-25 11:13:36

If she likes it that's all that matters. And she won't look like everyone else either.

GrammaH Sun 18-May-25 12:15:12

I'd be delighted she's not following the herd and has her own sense of style. My grandson is 12 and certainly doesn't have the run of the mill haircut and boring glasses - hus curls are dyed blind and he wears huge glasses. He doesn't care what anybody thinks - good for him & for your grand daughter