How about a GN 1 or 2 night mini break in a hotel in central England so that we could meet up en mass - afternoon tea, a cocktail or 2, dinner and then the Argy Bargy for those still standing? Somewhere with good transport links. ?
Are you in your forever house?
Retiring and living frugally in money from downsizing after years of stress


although I suppose travel lodge/premmierI Inns may cover that.
I could fly to Spain cheaper than rail travel there and back to York.