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Fflaurie Mon 20-Jul-20 07:38:24

I feel left out, unreasonable? I am a key worker in my 60s. I have worked ever day during this crisis for no extra money or acknowledgement. I feel quite jealous of younger people who have been furloughed and in actual fact have had four or five months off in the glorious weather we have had. I am tired, not just tired, but Marks and Spencer tired with another 3 years to work until I can claim my pension. I want time out to recharge my batteries and get paid for it. I am lucky to have a job and get paid yes, but I am so exhausted that I dont know if I will live to claim any pension. Thank you for listening.

Grandad1943 Mon 20-Jul-20 15:13:27

Many older persons work well past retirement age simply due to skill shortages. Such people are requested to stay on due to problems finding replacements for them and their skulls. I am in the office now and still working at the age of seventy-seven due in the main to the above situation.

I have always loved the work we carry out in the company and therefore do not mind working on. However, we could have grown the business much larger in the past five years had there been the people available with the skills we required.

As a business, we invest a large amount in training, but to bring any person to the highest qualification in the sector we work in can take several years and a great deal of expenditure.

The above is a major problem in many industries and professions, and until the government acknowledges Britain has major skill shortages the situation will not improve.

Heavy Investment in adult education and skills training is required for the forgoing shortage to be resolved. Then, a great many older persons would be retiring at the age they should be retiring at.

cupcake1 Mon 20-Jul-20 15:37:14

One DS worked from home during the start and height of the pandemic in a senior role within the travel industry so very pressured given the circumstances. He has now been made redundant sad. Second DS has been furloughed throughout, lives alone and is lonely and depressed. He sees us quite regularly (if only to get a hearty meal!) and talks non stop as he’s no one else to talk to - his mates are all going to the pub which he’s refused to do. Redundancies at his firm are now being looked at and he’s worried for the future. I do feel for the OP and thank her for her hard work throughout these unprecedented times but please don’t think all furloughed workers are living the high life, some are but many are not.

GrandmaMoira Mon 20-Jul-20 16:07:27

When I was still working in my 60s I was utterly exhausted and felt quite ill so I do sympathise. It does seem mad that so many younger people are out of work but older people with health issues have to work so hard.

GillT57 Mon 20-Jul-20 16:48:27

Furlough shaming seems to be the new benefit bashing, we must take care that we do not blame the wrong people for the position that we find ourselves in. Many people are anxious about losing their jobs when furlough ends, and those that are stupid enough to boast about being paid to do nothing are probably stupid enough to not have realised that they may not have a job by Christmas. Well done to you, and to everyone who has worked through these difficult times, we all appreciate your efforts, but please do not blame the rest of us for the raising of the pension age or the fact that you were not furloughed. This is not the time to be divided, we all need to support each other.

Notagranyet1234 Mon 20-Jul-20 19:34:35

Fflaurie as a fellow key worker who has just like you worked all through (in a care home) I understand the weariness. I count my blessings in having a job but must admit that I was envious of my DC who were furloughed and still live at home with me. As a fellow key worker I thank you for your efforts.

twiglet77 Mon 20-Jul-20 21:52:11

Same story here OP. I have this week off and although the store I work in is really lovely, I don't think I've ever been more relieved to have a week at home.

Doodledog Mon 20-Jul-20 23:01:09

I think there are two separate issues here. The first is about pension age, and I agree with those who feel that the current situation is very unfair, both on the young who could have the jobs of older people who want to retire, and on women who expected to retire at 60 after paying NI for decades.

The second issue is that of furlough/working. Those who are furloughed are not able to work, so I can't see any reason to castigate them for doing whatever they are doing instead. What do people want them to do?

Those who are working from home are probably as fed up as those going in to work. It is not easy to work when surrounded by home distractions. Not all houses are set up for working (why would they be?) and having other people around can make things really difficult. I do bits of consultancy (from home just now). Just having to keep everything Zoom-ready, and arrange other commitments around work-based appointments is often difficult, and I only do a few hours a week. Full-time work from home must be incredibly intrusive and isolating. In any case, as home-workers are still doing what they are being paid for, I don't understand the resentment there either.

Those going in to work are also doing what they are paid for. I can understand that it must be stressful coping with travel and dealing with the public (who may or may not be good at complying with guidance), and sympathise with that; but I don't think it is reasonable to expect to get a paid holiday just because other people's situations mean that they are not going in to their workplaces.

I could equally ask for backdated pay because I never got paid time off work outside of my holiday entitlement when at work, on the grounds that it is 'not fair' that people are getting it now. Obviously it would be considered an unreasonable request, but the logic is the same. I would have loved 'battery recharge' time during my last years at work, but didn't get them. Most people don't, although it would be great if we could build that into a new retirement deal.

I realise that this all sounds harsh, but my DIL has also worked throughout the crisis as a key worker in retail, and is likely to lose her job soon. She and my son have a new mortgage. My sister has been furloughed, but has worked in her own time to keep the company (a charity) going. She has been on 80% of her salary and used her own money for paper/copying/broadband etc, but believes in the cause, so has done it. When furlough ends she is also facing redundancy unless a massive donation comes forward (unlikely).

Meanwhile, my friend's daughter works in a well-known chemist, and has done nothing but moan from the start, complaining that others were sitting in their gardens whilst she was at work, and generally acting as though she were the only person in the country doing the job for which she is getting paid. I'm sure that she will soon be complaining that she is subsidising people claiming benefits when the redundancies kick in for those who were furloughed.

These are difficult times for everyone, and it is not a competition for who is getting the worst deal.

hereshoping Tue 21-Jul-20 07:22:09

Dear Fflaurie
Thank you so much for doing the job that you do and persevering through these difficult times. Love and kisses to you.
I used to work at Sainsburys so I know how tiring and physically painful it can be.
We are so grateful to Sainsburys for delivering our groceries each week and always thank the lady or gentleman albeit at a distance.
We're in our seventies and my husband has been diabetes so insists on being very careful.
We have effectively been in lock down for the last 18 months as my mother in law, who lived with us, was so frail that we couldn't leave her for more than a few minutes. She died in April but alas our lives haven't changed that much. Just different worries.

Grandad1943 Tue 21-Jul-20 07:47:15

It has to be faced that the Covid-19 emergency has been, and still is, an unprecedented situation where no one can predict what long term effects it will have on the working population of Britain.

Our Business being involved in workplace safety has been fully operational and very busy throughout the crisis. We did have eight members of the admin staff working from home at the start of the lockdown, but they were brought back into the office to work within two weeks and all seemed very glad to be once more back in that environment whatever the new restrictions.

All others have worked through the crisis and in that have visited many employers workplaces very often assisting in setting up safe working conditions and practices.

No one has complained that they have had to work while others remained at home while being paid, for they have been thankful to have had plenty of continuously secure ongoing work that will also see them well into the future, or as far as can be seen in this situation.

LizVck Tue 21-Jul-20 08:50:24

I am a supermarket worker also in my 60's I know exactly how you feel My OH is also a supermarket worker we are not only physically tired we are fed up of being abused, shouted at because people have to queue and the things they want to buy are not in stock. Our furloughed workers are just returning to work boasting that they have had 3 months off with pay what did we get nothing I would love some time off with pay to recover but it's not going to happen.

LadyJus Tue 21-Jul-20 09:33:38

I felt I should add my OH's experience to this thread.. He had also worked throughout the lockdown and even accepted a 15% pay cut to help ensure the company's future.
I was ill so OH had to take a day off to be my carer.
He recieved over £100 less for working 4 days (10 hr physical days and 4 hrs travelling) than his colleagues who were at home enjoying the sun all day, every day.

gillybob Tue 21-Jul-20 10:01:44

My DH and I have 3 employees . 1 of them has been at work full time helping me throughout . Up until 2weeks ago the other 2 have been at home on 80% wages ( savings in travel means breaking just about even ) . I’ve recently brought one back on half hours so he’s now on 90% wages for working half the hours and he’s not happy . For some reason he thinks he is being hard done by . confused

I feel like showing him what wages DH and I have had since March but that wouldn’t be very professional would it ?

Dorsetcupcake61 Tue 21-Jul-20 10:21:16

I'm sending virtual flowers to you all along with heartfelt thanks. I think the only certainty in these times is the uncertainty and how everyone has been affected somehow. As in life in general I think the inequality of peoples experiences.
In many ways I'm luckier than most and I truly appreciate that. I'm in a high risk group and work in a care home whose attitude to staff is not at all caring. The home has very real issues with Coronavirus. According to even government guidelines I shouldnt be there. They havent paid me since March. I'm signed off with work related anxiety,somewhat grudgingly by GP. I'm working with Union. It's an endless repetitive process of evidence and processes. A game. A times I have genuinely doubted my own sanity.
I am also on a diabetes forum where people have genuine concerns about a safe return to work. One poster commented that her daughter works for a government department and that in March EVERYONE with an underlying health condition, including the obese were sent home to work on full pay until at least next year. As a former council worker I have friends who are in the same position. I dont resent them for one moment. I think the public sector has higher standards of H&S, their workers are more aware of their rights and more likely to sue.
The job I'm doing was my choice and I'm majorly over qualified for it. That said I really enjoyed it. Yes the terms and conditions are rubbish but I am fortunate to have savings which although not massive made it possible.
This morning I found myself in tears. I have endured a lot. Mainly due to my own stubbornness, I want to be treated fairly and hopefully it would result in conditions changing for those who are not so fortunate. I'm well educated and capable of research regarding risk from the virus. The brutal realisation that a career choice can either validate genuine concerns and protect you or leave you exposed to risk and for want of a better word feeling gaslighted broke me . I'm not naive, my background is degrees in Social Policy, a degree in Psychology and a PGCE. I've worked for the CAB for research and campaigns. All of this has still left me feeling increasingly helpless and as if I'm making a fuss. Today I should contact my employer with requests for individual risk assessments and other things that they have refused or ignored twice before. All communication is done via email so have evidence. It's a game. I dont want to play any more I value my self esteem and sanity too much. That's what it comes down to as an individual and employee I am worth protecting.

klerg000 Tue 21-Jul-20 13:15:08

I know exactly how your feel. I do accountancy from home
and have clients who are furloughed. Spent three months
helping them get their payments and answering queries and of which they think I have a hot line to HMRC which I don't, just what I hear on tv and HMRC site. All unpaid they are struggling enough as it is without me adding. then those who are not furloughed keep hurrying me along to do the normal work which until now is done late at night or weekends and finally we will have to add another years work to reach out retirement goal so will be 69 when I retire
also DH and I are both shielding due to other illnesses leaving 3 days to open post and paperwork swapping shopping , delivered. with (everyone has been so good with this) and have not been out the house for 5 months. All my hopes are on the vaccination being done by end of year. We have two weeks off at Christmas and I will just sleep.

newnanny Wed 22-Jul-20 22:44:17

One of my sons is on furlough. He hates it and is worried he will lose his job at enc of month. He has been so bored and offered to hang 10 new doors, put on new skirtings and paint for me. Take some holidays if you are tired. Be glad you have a job to ho back to.

MissAdventure Thu 23-Jul-20 00:40:07

Working through the pandemic is no guarantee that anyone will keep their job.