I have a neighbour who thinks this is normal,she regularly redecorats her AC's houses ,books gardeners for them and plants up hanging baskets that match her own,she also collects their washing and irons it and even strips their beds
.When her SIL put on some weight she took him to weightwatchers and checked the contents of cupboards and fridges to make sure he wouldn't put it back on!Her daughter just lets her get on with it because she pays for everything she has done.My AC would have a fit if I did any of those things as I would have if my mum had invaded my space .Tell your MIL not to cross the line again ,if she's desperate to paint someones kitchen there are elderly folk always needing volunteers for jobs to be done
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Static caravan purchase is it worth buying