Those of you who know my situation,know that Domestic violence was the reason my daughter died
I done a number of courses to understand what happens the signs and why it can happen,Domestic violence doesn't have to be physical abuse,in fact many women say those scars heal it is the constant mental abuse,destruction of confidence,and fear that is worse.
If possible monitor the situation but also without putting pressure on your daughter persuade her to have bank books passports child benefit/benefit paperwork in one place and any personal sentimental photos etc in a place where they would be easy to grab or take should the need arise maybe keep some things at your home should she have to make a quick exit,but please don't put pressure on her to leave as it is proven that this doesn't work,just support her decisions and have info to hand such as numbers for Domestic violence /hate crime unit and they will help with safe house refuge etc.
On average it takes 32 calls to the police before a woman will leave.
8 women a year die as a result of domestic violence.....in 2004 my daughter was one of those....once he has alienated friends and family,usually after a pregnancy and children please look for signs of bruising with unsatisfactory explanation,taking to wearing clothing to cover arms legs etc which is out of the ordinary unexplained cancellation of visits etc....Just be aware*jap*. Sorry if this is a bit heavy and alarmist,but better safe than sorry