I do think that saying 'a daughter is a daughter all your life and a son is a son until he gets a wife' is the biggest load of tosh!
DDs are just as likely to live far away. My mother lives near my brother and sees him almost daily- I see her about 4 times a year.
I believe in 'give them roots and give them wings' and would hate them to stay near from a sense of duty. You can still have a great relationship across continents- lots do.
Scottish political mess. Is Devolution working?