We've all done our bit bringing our own children up and as we get older I believe we've earned the right to do things for ourselves. Yes this will include seeing family but it's not right that your daughter should dictate to you. Put yourself higher up the pecking order, we only have one life and we must enjoy the time we have left. This does not include stressing over trying to please everyone else.
Forgetting where you left your keys dies not mean you are “losing it”