susie I can understand your distress, particularly with a new baby on the horizon. I'm not sure if you have a husband or partner. Does this mean you will have no family close by? Are you fit and well? Any change takes adjustment, particularly a change not of our choosing. You need time to adjust. I still feel sad for my own parents who experienced us moving away from them. My mother was very tearful as we left, I drove away from her with tears pouring down my face because of her distress. So, if you can please hold onto your sadness. Instead be interested in the new location, perhaps plan with your daughter how you can travel to visit, particularly when the baby arrives. She will need your help if you are able to give it. Others have made really helpful suggestions from experience. Skype, FaceTime, What's App, cards, letters, email and the phone are all available to you. Your grandson will love using technology to talk to you and also love cards just for him through the post. We didn't lose closeness with my parents, they still knew their grandchildren, just differently until we could be closer geographically again. We were never geographically close to my mother in law, a widow when I met Mr C, travelling was hard back then but we managed and our children loved her. Their relationship was strong. There will be positives once the shock has passed. Plan that first visit and try to be happy for them.