I have 2 AC and each has one child. My daughter was a single mum and couldn’t cope so I took over the care of my GD as a baby and she has lived with just me for all her 15 years. My daughter lived elsewhere in the same town until 3 years ago. Last summer I was diagnosed with Lymphoma (blood cancer) and whilst in hospital for 3 weeks my GD went to stay “temporarily” with my DD now living 700 miles from me. My GD came home for a few weeks at Christmas but then decided she wanted to live with her mum permanently, so abandoned her GCSE courses half way through, all her friends etc and went north at the beginning of January. I thought (hoped) she would return, but she appears to have settled with her mum and I have felt incredibly lonely and abandoned for the last two month.
Last week, my son who lives about 60 miles away, announced he and his wife plus my lovely 5 year old GS are about to move with his job to Holland! So from spending several lovely days at Christmas with both GC and my son and DiL I will suddenly have no family nearby. Life just won’t be the same. I don’t even have a passport and am not a great traveller. Even travelling the 60 miles to see my son isn’t easy as I don’t drive that far and my partner doesn’t understand my fear of fast traffic! I’m not sure how I’m going to cope.
I have several friends also in their 60s and we meet for coffee and cinema trips, but I’m really going to miss my little GS as I planned to see loads more of him now my GD is no longer here! I used to teach and love children of this age, so their move is definitely going to hurt.