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Garden fence, should I? ?

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phoenix Mon 21-Sep-20 18:18:30

Hello all, hope you are safe and well.

The fence between us and next door blew down some years ago, Mr Neighbour offered to put it back up, which was kind of him. smile

However, he is obviously a stranger to a spirit level confused and the fence is not only all over the shop with regard to the "horizontals" but is now leaning quite badly.

We've had a couple of quotes to replace it, and it's looking like well over £800 shock

We really can't fork out that much at the moment, so we're wondering if it would be acceptable to approach neighbours and ask them if they might contribute to the cost, as a new fence would benefit them as much as us.

Generally we get on well, but Mrs Neighbour can be a bit "prickly" blush

They are younger than us, both work full time, and have no mortgage. I'm down to 2 days a week, Mr P has gone to around half his previous income, and we still have a mortgage sad

What are your thoughts?

Thank you.

Rufus2 Wed 23-Sep-20 15:38:17

Just checking to see if anyone other than Grandad1943 had any trouble understanding my post of 19.52?
Phoenix Since you ask, yes! confused
Can't understand where Donald fits into this discussion; we know he fancies himself as a fence builder, e.g. that one down Mexico way, but that doesn't compare with your problem. confused
When you were a Grace and Favour resident at Windsor Castle your DH, now your exDH, was a "Chippy" and would have come in handy with your present predicament. "Cometh the Time, Cometh the Man," something like that.!

Actually, at the Castle there wouldn't have been any fences to mend with whole place being built of solid granite, and in any case, your landlady would have picked up the tab.
without arguing about it over the fence. grin

Hope that answers your question!?
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phoenix Wed 23-Sep-20 21:35:23

Callistemon, it would go into next doors garden, and wouldn't do their new apple tree any favours!

phoenix Wed 23-Sep-20 21:39:14

Rufus exdh was a woodcarver and gilder while we were in residence at Windsor Castle, wouldn't be much help in sorting out the fence, seeing as we have no desire or need for intricate golden finials!

With regard to not understanding my post, I'm surprised at you!

Chewbacca Wed 23-Sep-20 21:43:24

Did you pick up any tips and hints from ExH Phoenix? Could be useful if you're able to gild the fence stumps or carve it into something wonderful to detract from the fact that it's falling down! You never know, neighbour might be so enamoured, he'd pay you!

phoenix Wed 23-Sep-20 22:03:55

gringrin

Callistemon Wed 23-Sep-20 22:26:12

We like our finials round here.
And our coat of arms is gilded on our baronial front door.

Chewbacca Wed 23-Sep-20 22:40:57

I think we should get Phoenix some whittling tools and set her to that fence. A bit like fence topiary!

Rufus2 Thu 24-Sep-20 12:49:20

With regard to not understanding my post, I'm surprised at you!
Phoenix Now what's that supposed to mean? confused
I'm surprised that you're surprised because you should know by now I'm slow on the uptake .
Good job we're not on Zoom, otherwise you'd see I'm full of surprises.! grin
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Rufus2 Thu 24-Sep-20 13:29:19

We like our finials round here
Callistemon Is one of them your family motto hanging over the front entrance? Plus your coat of arms, of course!

Ours is "Bona Fide Sine Fraude" Very appropriate, don't you think!? Our family crest is very attractive too!

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