I am going to research her site a bit more when I have a chance to sit down later. My brain thinks that I do not need that type of book right now, but maybe I am wrong.
I sometimes take a second look at the books I do have. I read them at first to try and understand the situation, I am reading them again to try and understand the person.
I don't even talk about forgiveness, but maybe that is what it is for me. If I understand why she is the way she is it will help me forgive her for a lifetime of emotional abuse.
Of course, that step has been stopped in it's tracks recently since I have had to have contact with her in regards to my Grandmother. She, of course, has done nothing but cause problems for everyone the last two months, so I find it hard to forgive when she is actively TRYING to cause problems.
Of course this leads to me having to stand up to her, since I am the only one who will, which then leads to another narcissistic injury for her. And the cycle continues.
At least, for now, she is not speaking to me after she got caught making bad (and illegal) choices. I had a quiet holiday this week.