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Vicious and narcissist Gran

(34 Posts)
Meg7 Sun 19-May-13 17:09:58

Dear Grans, I am a loving mum and gran, nothing makes me happier that when the little ones come and visit. But I think the reason why it works so well with my daughter is because I let her be independant and she's appreciative and hence by not always asking her to come and visit, she spontaneously comes! I've just read a book called Kiss of Thorns, by Lilliane Rosse (was on amazon kindle) and I never came across such an appauling story. It's about a vicious and narcissistic gran that tries to take her little children away from her daughter, for the only reason that she does not love her son in law. HOW IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE? What is her own mother tried to do that to her, how would she have felt? I highly recommend the read, i've enjoyed it very much!

gracesmum Mon 20-May-13 17:47:44

A case of win some lose some. At least she got us looking at Amazon to find out more about the book - but, with hindsight, finding out more about it and even reading any of it was bound to prove counter-productive! grin

Ariadne Mon 20-May-13 17:20:13

It did, but I do wish that the OP would respond; when they don't I wonder if they are a) genuine and upset or b) just having a punt. Sad, really?

Ana Mon 20-May-13 15:23:39

The OP's certainly generated a lot of interest, though! grin

Movedalot Mon 20-May-13 15:18:56

If the book is weak so is the attempt to promote it.

Gorki Mon 20-May-13 14:29:16

I thought you were an "o" but you are obviously a zero.Apologies

Gorki Mon 20-May-13 14:27:20

Point taken jo8.Careless choice of words on my part.

j08 Mon 20-May-13 13:58:16

Yes. It is Gracesmum. smile hmm

Sorry Gorki. It just sounded a little accusatory. smile

Gorki Mon 20-May-13 13:34:10

I only meant "defend" in the sense of explain herself and justify her recommendation of the book or just hear again from her in the light of other postings. How we get picked up on this site for the odd word sometimes.It is no wonder people who don't find it easy to express themselves are reticent to post. hmm

gracesmum Mon 20-May-13 12:05:20

Well that is the standard and consequently legitimate charge for advertising - isn't it?

j08 Mon 20-May-13 12:01:07

Perhaps she would have had to pay thirty quid? grin

gracesmum Mon 20-May-13 11:59:42

Ends justifying means? I don't agree. Sneaky insults intelligence, why not be upfront?

j08 Mon 20-May-13 11:38:47

Needs must when the devil calls. grin #sneakycanbegood

gracesmum Mon 20-May-13 11:35:55

Well surely only to say she is genuine? If promoting a book becasue you/yourDD/DH/SIL/dog has just published their foirst book - why not say so on the proper thread?? Sneaky ad is what I thought and I hold to that.

j08 Mon 20-May-13 11:15:14

Certainly don't think Meg7 needs to "defend herself"!

j08 Mon 20-May-13 11:13:33

Well I've just skim read the first three chapters on Amazon. Sounds like an amateur first (and probably only) book. Nothing to get worked up about.

In fact it could be a good illustration of a woman (the mother) with some kind of psychosis. Perhaps it's from real life experience.

Would be good if the original poster came back and told us more. smile

glammanana Mon 20-May-13 09:56:05

Definatley not a book I would give up my valuable time to read.

Gorki Mon 20-May-13 09:36:23

Could this thread be moved? It is not really about grandparenting. More about a book that nobody seems very keen on. confused

Thistledoo Mon 20-May-13 09:01:35

Sounds depressing, couldnt bear to read such a book. Why would an author wish to publish such load of sad rubbish. Wont be reading it.

Gorki Mon 20-May-13 08:33:20

Perhaps Meg7 could return to defend herself/himself.

j08 Sun 19-May-13 23:29:08

Why? smile It is quite possible that the original poster is a Gransnetter simply recommending a book. It is also possible that she is Lilliane Rosse cleverly disguised. Who knows? grin

Galen Sun 19-May-13 23:23:01

I note GNHQ have deleted a second thread on the same book. Should this be deleted also? GNHQ please answer!

gracesmum Sun 19-May-13 22:35:56

I have had a look at it too - just published so I am more suspicious then ever! What a load of tosh!!! Cliches R Us could be its sub title! Good try, Meg7 but you can't pull the wool over these grannies' eyes that easily !!! grin

Gorki Sun 19-May-13 22:18:43

I skimmed through the first chapter and it was horrible . All I can say is that it is crude in every sense of the word. The style is immature and is not a book I would want to read.

NannaAnna Sun 19-May-13 21:42:10

Doesn't sound like a book I'd remotely want to read Meg7!

YaYaJen Sun 19-May-13 19:15:02

Life can always top fiction, my mother applied to take my daughter off me, won't go into reasons but had frequent visits of social services after that, grilling my daughter, looking in my fridge/freezer everything, every aspect of our lives....eventually before a panel they decided that my daughter and I had a strong, loving, healthy relationship and my mothers fear were foundless....