My daughter and I have always been close and very fond of each other. My husband (not her father) says that it is such a healthy r/s with love and respect.
My daughter lives 40 minutes from where I live with her husband and they have just had a baby 2 weeks ago.During the last 5 years I often felt that it was hard to make appointments with her. Both alone and with my husband. She has got a girlfriend that to me sounds very toxic (she is not seeing her mother and is speaking badly of everyone) My daughter is very fond of this girlfriend, but I have been treated not so well by my daughter (she says limits) so perhaps the girlfriend is giving her some ideas. Well that is not the issue. I really need some perspective/help with feelings that are overwrelming me. I feel so desparate according to get a r/s with my new grandson in the future. I have seen him once for 3 hours - they have a hard time with crying and the new circumstances (very understandable). Her mother in law lives 4 hours away but she is coming at least once a month for 3 days and have done that the last 5 years. Now when the grandson is here, I feel so sad. The mother in law has just been there for 3 days and helped them with the screaming boy. I asked my daughter if I could help, but she says thanks, but no - she says "not too may people has to look after him". I feel that I always have to ask, and she is holding me an armlenght from her/them. I know that is very early, but I feel the desparation that I will see my grandson every other week 2-3 hours and the mother in law 3 days a month. Perhaps I sound very selfish, but in fact I am the opposite. I always want to understand how my daughter feels, I support her very much my sms (daily) all her small woman problems. And I always back off and wait (with a heavy heart though). I would so much like to see my grandson every week and then in between with my husband when it is ok with my daughter and her family. And I would very much like to have a feeling that I could come to her house more freely. Please any good suggestions would be much appreciated. I am Danish so I appologize if there are mistakes in the English.
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