Suziewoizie, It would bother lots of people if their son was part of a group, that swore, spat and were disruptive, these boys don't just change personality when they get home? I think a lot of them come from homes where they just get on with it and hear bad language and experience no parental interest in their lives. The availability of Porn,, surely there's a way to block it, or if they use it forfeit the phone. Parenting is not easy but schools can't do it on their own. We need to look at the way women are portrayed on tv and Internet, many of them seek out that way to earn a living, exploiting their body, a means to an end. On a night out many girls behave disgustingly if you have ever watched the documentaries on it, sick in gutters and urinating in public.