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Grannytwoshoes Wed 15-Aug-12 08:48:53

Good morning, I am new to the class so bear with me if I make a few mistakes! Have already lost one message...so here goes for the second time.
I have three Burmese cats of advancing years in good health....Ihope....why do they howl so much? It's not just the Oriental pedigree. It's. It's getting worse and doesn't help that Iamnot meant to have a cat! Also why do they drink from the bath tap when they have a full bowl of water?!

absentgrana Sat 01-Dec-12 17:44:05

And stencil holly and ivy kittylester? Yes – if I wasn't quite so busy. grin No serious guests this Christmas, so we can manage.

Deedaa Sat 01-Dec-12 21:46:41

When my daughter and her husband were living with us her elderly cat had a stroke while having some teeth out. This left her blind and barely able to walk so my daughter cat proofed their room with padding round all the walls so she couldn't hurt herself. There are still traces of it 7 years after they moved out.

absent Fri 18-Jan-13 16:37:53

So many of you were very kind when I first posted about Fishpaste I thought I would bring you up to date. She was due another steroid jab on the Friday before Christmas but could we get a taxi to take us to the vet? Fortunately, a kind neighbour – dog- rather than cat-owner – kindly drove us there and waited until we were ready to come home again. As before, the stuff worked like magic and she was walking more easily and clearly feeling quite perky.

However, late on Christmas Eve, it became clear that she couldn't really stand up. She would struggle to her feet but then keel over. Could it have happened at a worse time? We nursed her with constant care and attention, keeping her wrapped in a blanket nestled in her doughnut on top of absorbent towels throughout Christmas and Boxing Day. She wasn't in pain, just unable to stand or walk about and very puzzled. She gradually lost interest in food and water but just hung on in there, tough old lady.

The Thursday after Boxing Day we rang our vet as soon as the clinic was open and went in immediately. As we expected, there was no cure and we stroked her goodbye as we gave her messages to Dylan, Max our lovely dog and all the other the pets we have loved and lost.

But this is not the end of our sad Christmas. About five o'clock on Saturday morning, I found Helvetica Semi-bold collapsed on the landing outside our bedroom. He had been getting very scruffy, not grooming himself much, and a bit inclined to poo in unlikely places, but I had no idea that he was that weak. I scooped him up and popped him in a doughnut with the towels and blanket and woke Mr absent. When the poor little chap started fitting we knew it was the end but had to wait until eight before we could telephone the vet. Once again, we stroked a lovely tabby goodbye and sent him off with messages for his mum and others.

So now our family of cats is down to three – Dingbat who was diagnosed with a dodgy ticker when he had his yearly check-up this month and the two girls, Bodoni and Frutiger. I am still plannning to take them to New Zealand when we emigrate but can't help feeling that not all of them – perhaps none – will make it. But I shall proceed as if they have years of happy healthy life ahead and keep my fingers crossed.

Marelli Fri 18-Jan-13 16:42:52

Oh absent, I'm so sorry about your cats. I was broken-hearted when my wee Lucky had to be put to sleep last year, and like you, stayed with him as he drifted away. I hope the remaining ones manage to emigrate with you. flowers

numberplease Fri 18-Jan-13 16:45:28

So sorry to hear about your beloved cats Absent, but they will be happily frolicking somewhere. I hope you have the other three for a while longer yet.

MiceElf Fri 18-Jan-13 17:10:07

Oh dear. I've got tears in my eyes reading about these lovely puss cats. So you must be heartbroken. I think you were very brave to go to the vets with them, I'm not sure I would have the mental strength to do that. My old puss pushing twenty so every day is a bonus.

absent Fri 18-Jan-13 17:11:08

Oh I sobbed my heart out both times MiceElf.

Ariadne Fri 18-Jan-13 17:15:07

Oh absent I am so sorry to hear these sad stories. I have posted before about losing my Rosie at the age of 24; you know when the time has come, but oh my goodness it hurts.

I read, some where in a book, someone saying about a cat "It's nice to have a person in the house who isn't human." That is a cat. (I'm sure it is a dog too!)

Love to you and the other three (not forgetting Mr a.)

Ariadne Fri 18-Jan-13 17:16:33

Oh, and * absent* their names are intriguing. I understand Fishpaste, but were did the other names come from?

nightowl Fri 18-Jan-13 17:24:43

I'm so sorry to hear about Fishpaste and Helvetica absent. It must have been so difficult watching poor Fishpaste looking so poorly right through Christmas as well. What a comfort for them both to have you with them at the end.

I had always avoided being there for that last trip to the vet but just over two years ago I was the only person around when my poor Max was really struggling so I had no choice. Once the vet gave the advice I was expecting, I knew I couldn't just leave Max in the hands of a stranger (however kind) for his last moments. I was so glad I did, it really helped me to see how peacefully he left us and to know that my voice was the last one he heard. Now I'm in floods of tears as well.

absent I do hope the remaining members of the family will make it to NZ where they could have a new lease of life x

absent Fri 18-Jan-13 17:40:16

Ariadne The fonts were all born in my office and as I write books I named them all after fonts. Dingbat was first and never was a cat so appropriately named, Helvetica Semi-bold, who never quite grew into his paws and always looked guilty, was next, then came Bodoni, a serif cat with a curvaceous tail, and finally small but feisty Frutiger Light Condensed made her appearance. They remaining three will be 16 in February.

annodomini Fri 18-Jan-13 18:09:15

absent, I am so sad for you. It's 15 years since I had to do the same for my two, within a month or so. It's the price we pay for the love and companionship of our pets. It still hurts to think about mine and yours will always be there in your heart too.

Deedaa Sat 19-Jan-13 22:03:43

absent I am so sorry about your cats, what a horrible Christmas! What a wonderful age though. Our 16 year old is still thriving on his thyroid pills and the 14 year old seems fit enough. The other two are much younger. It is so hard to see them go and they do leave such a hole.

Kali Sat 19-Jan-13 22:14:07

I know how much your cats mean to you absent and I'm so sorry for your loss.