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Does sex really keep your mind sharp?

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tooly Mon 10-Jul-17 10:28:57

Just read an article in the Guardian about how sex may help to keep your brain active. I find my memory is getting worse as I get older - more like a sieve everyday in fact - and I have to admit that sex is a rarity for me these days. That's not to say that I'm not satisfied (I'm in a very happy marriage), but I wonder if there's something to this. Does anyone find that sex helps them mentally - or is it more about being satisfied and happy than improving cognitive functions? Thanks in advance smile

Article is here if anyone wants to read www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/jul/10/does-having-sex-when-you-are-older-help-you-stay-mentally-sharp

neverknewthat Mon 10-Jul-17 11:23:28

I suspect that it's all about being happy (mental and physical satisfaction and all) rather than the act per se. I will have a closer read of the article but I'm not sure how it would work otherwise. Seems a bit odd

Luckygirl Mon 10-Jul-17 11:31:03

I just have to remember how to do it! grin

Fireflies Mon 10-Jul-17 11:36:46

Hmm, not too sure about that - I can't see what medical benefit it could have? Think I'll stick with my sudoku grin

glammanana Mon 10-Jul-17 11:42:29

I cant imagine having sex once a week will remind me what I am buying for Sunday Lunch whilst shopping in Morrisons wink

tooly Mon 10-Jul-17 11:42:54

grin Luckygirl, that did make me laugh

Greyduster Mon 10-Jul-17 11:56:11

Lucky grin. If we had sex once a week we wouldn't have to worry about cognitive function - it would kill us both!!

kittylester Mon 10-Jul-17 12:01:45

Lucky, gd gringrin

Its not working for me! grin

TriciaF Mon 10-Jul-17 12:25:40

I guess it exercises the memory trying to remember when was the last time wink

Iam64 Mon 10-Jul-17 13:17:20

Good comments folks ?.

trisher Mon 10-Jul-17 13:32:20

Well I suppose I'd have to find someone to do it with first and I'd need new underwear and a spa treatment and new sheets and have to shift all the books around my bed. In fact I don't think I'll bother. Losing my marbles earlier is easier grin

rosesarered Mon 10-Jul-17 13:34:27

Well, it's an interesting idea, and I am prepared to give it a go even more often now.....a win win situation.wink

hulahoop Mon 10-Jul-17 13:35:17

Looking at comments on here there's nothing wrong with your brains .

kittylester Mon 10-Jul-17 14:07:23

We must be at it like rabbits then hula! Well, some of them must be!!

Charleygirl Mon 10-Jul-17 14:13:17

trisher I totally agree with you, there is little point spending so much money when we are more than happy as we are. It takes a lot to beat a good book.

Teetime Mon 10-Jul-17 14:14:51

Well I can do the Times crossword in under 5 minutes, answer all the questions on University Challenge and win every pub quiz within ten miles - are you wondering what I've been up to?

Greyduster Mon 10-Jul-17 14:31:27

? Teetime!! And all this time you told us you were playing golf! My foot! [grim]

Greyduster Mon 10-Jul-17 14:31:57

grin!!!

Greyduster Mon 10-Jul-17 14:37:09

Does thinking about it a lot count (you have to do something when the fish aren't biting!) or does that not have the same effect?

kittylester Mon 10-Jul-17 14:42:20

I could only do about 3 clues in the Times crossword today but Dh almost finished it shockhmm

trisher Mon 10-Jul-17 15:14:39

Does he now Teetime? wink

trisher Mon 10-Jul-17 15:15:04

That should be know not now!!!

Anniebach Mon 10-Jul-17 15:21:33

If true, explains much,i was widowed forty years ago !

Grannyknot Mon 10-Jul-17 15:51:15

This is an aside - a doctor friend (retired GP) is writing her memoirs and I'm reading the first draft ... in it she writes about a patient, an 86 year old woman who was still sexually active. I was like shock

MissAdventure Mon 10-Jul-17 16:18:29

The only way sex kept my mind working was trying to think up new excuses to avoid it!