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Clothes for "older" people.

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Dinahmo Wed 01-Jun-22 13:42:58

A while back there was a thread about what one should wear as one got older. Some were in favour of growing old disgracefully whilst others were in favour of discretion. Here's an article from the Guardian entitled "How to Age Well" - get louder every decade! Of particular note is the American Iris Apfel, aged 100. I wish I had the money and was thin enough to wear her clothes

www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/jun/01/the-new-rules-for-dressing-your-age-after-50

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 01-Jun-22 13:56:53

I’ve always thought her and her OTT style absolutely ghastly.

Poppyred Wed 01-Jun-22 14:01:53

Really? I wouldn’t be seen dead in them!

Casdon Wed 01-Jun-22 14:04:14

Actually I agree with a lot of what’s in this article. It’s a sobering thought that Brad Pitt is a year older than Boris Johnson, and we could be the female sartorial equivalents of one or the other depending on our choices.

FlexibleFriend Wed 01-Jun-22 14:17:57

I wear what I want and what I feel comfortable in, wouldn't be seen dead in Iris's clothes. Nothing like stating the obvious of course a fit and trim body looks better in clothes than one that's gone to seed to put it politely.

AreWeThereYet Wed 01-Jun-22 14:27:04

Was it Iris Apfel who said something along the lines of 'if you can't be beautiful, be outrageous' ? If you're a designer I guess you need to be noticed (for whatever the reason) or your business dies. As a person I think she's quite brilliant, but it's doubtful I would ever let her dress me.

Lark123 Wed 01-Jun-22 14:36:16

People like that have always been like that; commanding attention wherever they went.
Why would they fade into the woodwork if they are well and active and want to show the world they are still alive and kicking?

HowVeryDareYou Wed 01-Jun-22 17:16:18

I think Iris Apfel looks terrible

eazybee Wed 01-Jun-22 17:29:08

My mother used to aspire to look like a model known as Mrs. Exeter; always immaculate,perfectly set iron grey hair, manicured nails and tailored clothes with matching accessories. I saw two women shopping together yesterday; Mrs. X was perfectly turned out in casual clothes, hair and make-up totally appropriate,pristine white trainers, just innately stylish. By comparison the friend looked like a bag lady.

Elizabeth27 Wed 01-Jun-22 17:57:53

To me, she looks ridiculous, but each to their own.

I do not like clothes that say ‘look at me.’ I have been pleased that with getting older you become invisible unless you want to dress a little differently and stand out.

Redhead56 Wed 01-Jun-22 18:29:22

What comes to mind I know a ?

Ramblingrose22 Wed 01-Jun-22 18:39:26

It would be great if people could say where they get stylish clothes these days which can be worn by both young and "older" people alike.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 01-Jun-22 18:41:26

Ramblingrose22

It would be great if people could say where they get stylish clothes these days which can be worn by both young and "older" people alike.

White Company
Hush
Hobbs
Boden
Sahara
L K Bennet
Mint Velvet

Esmay Wed 01-Jun-22 19:33:22

I love the looks created by Iris Apfel and Vivienne Westwood .
If I were thinner and richer ...

M0nica Wed 01-Jun-22 19:54:51

Well, I think Iris Apfel, is terrific. I would not dress like that myself, but to see and read about a lady with such panache and joie de vivre and total disregard for what people think she should do and how they think she ought to dress, Putting a finger up to them all and dressing as she wants is a joy to see.

So much better than all those asking about age-appropriate clothes and sneering at all those who couldn't give a damn.

MayBee70 Wed 01-Jun-22 19:59:24

Good grief. Why would I want to look like an orange shower puff?

GrannyGravy13 Wed 01-Jun-22 20:27:24

M0nica I absolutely agree ??

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 01-Jun-22 20:28:25

So do I !

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 01-Jun-22 20:30:15

Oh I got that wrong. Meant to agree with Maybee. Doh.

NotTooOld Wed 01-Jun-22 22:03:00

Iris Apfel? Should I have heard of her? The blue trouser suit is ok but not the matching specs. The orange puffball thingy would look awful on an eighteen year old, never mind a one hundred year old. I'll stick to my linen trousers and cotton t-shirt, thanks.

Hetty58 Wed 01-Jun-22 22:18:21

I think we should be confident enough, at our age, to wear whatever we truly like - and feel comfortable in. I really don't care at all what others think of my outfits (why should I, when I'm not looking for approval?)

BigBertha1 Wed 01-Jun-22 22:28:49

I buy from the brand's listed above but have recently also bought from Finery and Mint Velvet. Keep it classic and buy the best you can afford but only a few things every season and wear them a lot.

MerylStreep Wed 01-Jun-22 22:29:58

I’ve followed Iris for years. I love some pieces of the outfits she wears but wouldn’t wear them all together as she does.
I think she’s wonderful.
Her home is just like her outfits.

Deedaa Thu 02-Jun-22 17:33:25

I was delighted to buy one of Iris's necklaces from her collaboration with H&M. Nothing too outrageous just a big black necklace, but it will give a couple of my dresses an edge. I wanted one of the more outrageous ones but they sold out in minutes.
Mainly I wear what I've always worn. In my 60's I wore a lot of brown but now I'm going much more colourful. If I don't wear bright colours now when am I going to?

echt Fri 03-Jun-22 05:49:29

I like the idea of Iris Apfel, the way she represents difference/ adventurousness. I don't think the article was saying wear her clothes, more push the (imaginary) boundaries.

I buy clothes from Two Threads and Lounge the Label in Australia.