AIBU about giving my DS a deadline for moving out of home? I have told him that he has to leave on or by 1st October next year. I am hoping that he will be going to university.
Some of you probably know that he has been verbally abusive in the past and at times can still be so. He also, many times, makes me feel very lonely as he spends time with me only when it takes his fancy. I am sure I would feel less lonely alone with the pets. With my illnesses, he appears not to care and doesn't even offer to make a cup of tea for me, never mind do anything else around the house. I cannot go on longer than another 361 days. (Not that I am counting.)
He has just failed his AS levels. He was home schooled but has been back in formal education for two years now. He needs his A levels to go on to university. Plus his driving licence for his paramedic course. I am willing to still have him at home while he gets these under his belt but I cannot live like this for much longer.
He, regardless of my nagging, talking, reasoning, still continues to play games, be on youtube, facebook etc and not do any extra study. I am giving him the time to get his head from up his ass and make something of his life but I have to think for my life too. I honestly thought I was in dire straights the other day with my breathing and was about to call for an ambulance.
How can I give everything to a child and then he doesn't want to spend time with me or even care that I cannot breath properly? It hurts so much I want to be on my own.
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