Usually the family is at the heart of Christmas activities with my home as the hub, but this year all of my children and even my beloved parents in law will be absent, with my blessing and encouragement. I have no doubt that I will have an occasional pang of sadness that we're apart, but knowing that we wouldn't be together for Christmas we made a point of holidaying with each of the children this year.
So, what to do? There are two local community lunches on Christmas Day, but I know they have more than enough volunteers already. I'm not sure yet exactly what the Wonderful Man will say, but our choices boil down to; stay at home and see who we can invite to join us, or go away together and have a very different sort of Christmas experience.
Anger management!!! Help needed.