AIBU to expect my husband to be awake and talk to me?

It’s sounds very much like a medical problem, as he snores it could be sleep apnoea ( hope the spelling is right) so I suggest a visit to your dr.

A GP check up for a start however if he is like my husband he just wouldn't go would tell me I am being ridiculous.
All his naps are power naps he's not sleeping so he tell me.
We have more than one TV makes for a quiet life. Live the life you want life can be short.
U3A have lots of interesting groups check your local ones out online.

Definitely sounds like sleep apnea- my husband was just the same and was finally diagnosed about 10 years ago. He was waking up on average every 6 minutes so his quality of sleep was virtually nil. He was given a c-pap machine which made a huge difference albeit bringing problems of its own as it's a dreadful thing to sleep in and the DVLA have to be informed. He still falls asleep when he sits down but nowhere near as much as he did but he works 12 hours a day so not unexpected at 64. Get him to the GP.

Mine does that a lot too and he doesn’t work! He does have a host of medical problems, diabetes and sleep apnoea bring two of them. Sometimes when he snores it’s as if he stops breathing so that alone could make your OH very tired. Mine improved s lot when he got s C PAP machine. He might even be low in iron or need a Vit B12 jab so a trip to the doc could be helpful.

I can fall asleep anytime anywhere but only ever manage four or five at most in bed at night

When my DH was sleeping like this, he saw the doctor and was diagnosed with diabetes. He started sleeping less as soon as he had his medication.

Our situation is similar Saggi. DP moans I go out as lot but he won't do anything. I am not prepared to waste my life watching TV. We have a couple of older friends who are both recovering from serious illness. Their lifestyle puts DP to shame. My mum used to say " you are a long time dead".