Some good comments on this thread. It would indeed be a very boring site if we were all in agreement at all times, on all issues. That said, as many have already posted it isn't necessary to be rude or aggressive because your point of view differs to some one else.
Lemon "it takes courage to bare all and deserves a respectful reply", so true.
I sometimes think that there is a mistaken assumption that those who do post on the relationships forum, are simply looking for total agreement. Another point of view is always worthy of consideration but at times it's how that point of view is expressed that causes upset.
It always saddens me when a poster feels unable to continue to post, because they've been upset by ill informed and confrontational responses.
Often, they are the very people who at that time, are in need of all the support they can find.