If she had a genuine reason for disliking your DH she would decide to either say it, or keep quiet and carry on.
Lets face it, everyone is thinking it, she is implying either cheating or immorality/criminality.
And if she is implying it to you shd will be implying it to others, and letting her into your life even without DH there will give weight to her implications to others.
If she really had any genuine concerns for you she would/should say so, which makes me think there is no honour in her intentions
By implying thess things she is making herself unaccoubtable and worse, perhaps even setting you up, because if you outright ask her if she is saying that he is a cheat, or ask others if she has said as much.... well she didnt say that, exactly. And but the seed is sown and you asking about it is then "proof" that you have your suspicians about him not "her".
I wonder if actually she fancies him and is orchestrating drama between you so she can swoop in and be the shoulder to cry on.
I would usually say that no matter hos well you know your OH, be open minded if a friend has concerns, but THIS friend isnt acting like a person with genuine concerns.
P.s. I have a friend whose husband I dont like. He has done nothing wrong I just dont like him, I find conversation stifled/awkward with him around we just dont gel. I would NEVER say "I dont like your husband" to her. It would achieve nothing. I just arrange to see her when he is at work.
Stabbing at a school in Wales this lunchtime.
Why Are Blokes Obsessed With Noisy Gadgets??
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧