Antalya, ditto for me. I’m late sixties, husband early sixties, been married only 12 years. Love him to bits but he told me about a year ago he no longer wanted to make love. His reasons were he was ‘getting on’ in years and had never been much of a sexual person even as a youngster. I’m devastated to have been forced into celibacy as I’ve always enjoyed sex and as far as I’m concerned he’s been a great lover even though he has had his difficulties. I just can’t seem to come to terms with it as I still fancy him like crazy.
He won’t talk about it. In every other respect he’s a great husband. He went to the doctors just before he told me he no longer wanted intimacy and was given Viagra, but he doesn’t want to use it as he’s not interested.
So, to the OP regarding a magic potion, you can lead a horse, etc! I’d be grateful for two minutes! Thanks for reading as I have no one to talk to about my situation.