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Pammie1 Tue 15-Feb-22 16:16:46

News has just broken that Prince Andrew has settled out of court with Virginia Giuffre Two things puzzle me. Andrew has vehemently stated his innocence and opted for trial by jury (although Virginia Giuffre opted for this as the plaintiff, so I don’t think he had much choice) so what does he have to gain by settling ? And Giuffre has always been adamant that it wasn’t about money, but that she wanted to prove that no one was above the law. What do we think changed ?

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 16-Feb-22 14:42:59

I’m just waiting for the next one.

Oldwoman70 Wed 16-Feb-22 14:43:00

I think the his position changed when an email surfaced from Maxwell to his lawyers stating she thought that photo was real

MissAdventure Wed 16-Feb-22 14:47:09

I do hope so.

GillT57 Wed 16-Feb-22 14:51:04

I know he is a member of a very rich family, but just how does Andrew, and the profligate ex wife of his, afford the lifestyle they have? As i understand it, his only real income is £260,000 from the Queen and £20,000 RN pension. Yes, I know it is a lot of money to most people, but in income terms, it does not support their spending. They are reported to both be dreadful with money, in fact Epstein bailed out Andrew's ex wife, Sarah, to the tune of £15,000 I believe. I appreciate there is a lot of money in assets in the family, but to my mind, it is inherited, such as art, property etc., and they are custodians for the next generation. I wonder if this pay out is seen as Andrew getting his 'share' early? Not really apropos of anything, just musing and curious.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 16-Feb-22 14:56:43

Could be. I expect HM and Charles are having to bail them out from their personal money. He’s only 62 and unemployable, don’t know what she does, and I expect they will consider themselves entitled to carry on with their expensive lifestyles. Could live for another 40 years.

GillT57 Wed 16-Feb-22 15:09:51

I think we are going to see serious changes when the Queen dies. Charles has always said he will slim 'The Firm' down, so I suspect this business will lend more power to this plan. I have no issue with the Queen, but even before this disgusting debacle, I wouldn't have walked to the Coop to see Andrew. Andrew and ex are living in Royal Lodge in Windsor for a peppercorn rent, perhaps they will have to cut their coat to suit their cloth and move to a considerably smaller property and with less no staff, neither of them are working as far as I can see so they can cut their own grass and polish their own silver. I have this image of Kate talking to William 'Do we have to have your creepy Uncle Andrew over to dinner?'

Kalu Wed 16-Feb-22 15:13:43

Smileless2012

Being randy doesn't make you a rapist Kalu.

Where did I say or imply PA was a rapist!? Good grief, that was a bit of a stretch.

Sarnia Wed 16-Feb-22 15:48:06

Counting out £12m in fivers is going to make him sweat. Oh, hang on a minute..............grin

Callistemon21 Wed 16-Feb-22 17:00:46

Smileless2012

Being randy doesn't make you a rapist Kalu.

Having sex with an under-age girl in the States is statutory rape.

VioletSky Wed 16-Feb-22 17:25:10

I agree Iam64

I also wish it was 18 here.

Aveline Wed 16-Feb-22 17:28:07

I still don't think he did have sex with her. I suspect she was told that a 'British prince' might be at a party but would probably not be able to tell one middle aged man from another.
He must deeply regret his association with Epstein and want to get this all over asap. He's robustly defended himself and even offered to appear in court in America which was a grave risk. I don't think he's the brightest and certainly miscalculated by giving that TV interview which he hoped would end all the speculation.
My personal opinion is that she's an opportunistic besom and that her parents knew fine well what was going on. She's not a poor wee thing and was absolutely beaming in that photo which has mysteriously disappeared.

VioletSky Wed 16-Feb-22 17:30:26

Oh please don't start victim blaming underage girls again.

Adults are at fault here.

It is so horribly off putting to read

Callistemon21 Wed 16-Feb-22 17:31:21

I agree VioletSky

I thought we'd gone past that.

Smileless2012 Wed 16-Feb-22 17:59:27

I agree it's a bit of a stretch Kalu so why did you mention rape in your earlier post.

"I have read/heard of many women in the UK who decide not to report being raped for fear of not being believed. PA however, has a reputation which earned him the name Andy Randy which speaks volumes".

So what did you intend to say or imply?

Galaxy Wed 16-Feb-22 18:01:27

Yes I agree too VS.

MissAdventure Wed 16-Feb-22 18:20:54

Having sex with trafficked people is illegal. It doesn't matter their age.

Andrew has paid out sooner than prove he had no idea of the trafficking.

That is the short and long of it.

VioletSky Wed 16-Feb-22 18:24:44

Smileless the way you are speaking to Kalu is very confrontational

The man has been accused of sex with a minor which is statutory rape. I view her as incredibly brave as it is true that many are afraid to come forward with that sort of allegation incase they are not believed.

Despite his reputation some are still willing to absolutely trounce a person who was a minor at the time of these events and it is shocking to me when women should be holding each other up.

Keeper1 Wed 16-Feb-22 18:33:09

An old boss of mine always said when a case goes to court it can go either way. Looks to me that both parties wanted to settle.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 16-Feb-22 18:37:14

Keeper1

An old boss of mine always said when a case goes to court it can go either way. Looks to me that both parties wanted to settle.

Your friend is incorrect as far as these sort of cases in the USA . The cases tend to go in favour of the claimant.

Petera Wed 16-Feb-22 18:39:28

Aveline

I still don't think he did have sex with her. I suspect she was told that a 'British prince' might be at a party but would probably not be able to tell one middle aged man from another.
He must deeply regret his association with Epstein and want to get this all over asap. He's robustly defended himself and even offered to appear in court in America which was a grave risk. I don't think he's the brightest and certainly miscalculated by giving that TV interview which he hoped would end all the speculation.
My personal opinion is that she's an opportunistic besom and that her parents knew fine well what was going on. She's not a poor wee thing and was absolutely beaming in that photo which has mysteriously disappeared.

Aveline my personal opinion is that she was a trafficked 17-year-old. Even if she was lying with her legs in the air screaming "**** me Andy" it was still a crime if it happened and the 41-year-old bears, not just some but, all of the responsibility.

MissAdventure Wed 16-Feb-22 19:03:07

grin

Smileless2012 Wed 16-Feb-22 19:49:14

"if it happened" and of course we'll never know now for sure.

Callistemon21 Wed 16-Feb-22 19:56:14

Surely, if he had a shred of decency, he would have looked at some of the girls and thought "They're just children, not much older than my own little girls. I can't bear the thought of middle aged men taking advantage of Beatrice and Eugenie were circumstances different. I must do something to stop this".

He knew, he colluded and did nothing even if he didn't rape any of them.
He is a disgrace.

VioletSky Wed 16-Feb-22 20:00:02

Not sure about that, there are people, who were witness to the truth and there are people who can see through the abusers of this world who will know it too.

Petera Wed 16-Feb-22 20:00:39

Smileless2012

"if it happened" and of course we'll never know now for sure.

Yes I know what I wrote thanks Smileless2012. It still doesn't contradict the facts - and I use the word “facts” deliberately and carefully - that a trafficked 17-year-old girl is being publicly described as "opportunistic".

I weep for our daughters and granddaughters.