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to feel sad that the Queen looks so frail.

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snowberryZ Thu 14-Apr-22 15:13:19

Its popped up on my newsfeed that the Queen will be missing another royal engagement. There were also pictures of her looking even more frail still. Yes I know it's understandable at her age.
And it struck me that even though I'm a a bit of a republican, I am going to really miss her when she's no longer here. I get the 'feeling' that all is not as well as we're being led to believe.
The Queen has been a big constant in all our lives for so long, that I think you'd have to be a hard hearted person not to feel saddened when she's no longer here.
She's done such a good job.

AreWeThereYet Thu 14-Apr-22 21:04:16

So no compassion for anyone who has more money than us? Whose lifestyle we disapprove of?

Personally I wouldn't swap my life for the life of any royal. I can think of nothing more horrendous than to have my every word, every blink, every twitch, scrutinised and discussed by all and sundry regardless of whether they knew what they were talking about. I'm not particularly royalist but do have a regard for the Queen.

Joseanne Thu 14-Apr-22 21:06:06

I am so so pleased for the Queen that Harry and Meghan flew in to visit her. If this is true, it must have made her day.

Callistemon21 Thu 14-Apr-22 21:07:44

Joseanne

I am so so pleased for the Queen that Harry and Meghan flew in to visit her. If this is true, it must have made her day.

Oh, I missed that.

Good. I wonder if they have brought the children?

mokryna Thu 14-Apr-22 21:38:29

Are you sure? I hope so. They flew into the Netherlands but got snubbed it is said by the Dutch royals

Callistemon21 Thu 14-Apr-22 21:41:45

Well, if Chris Ship said they did it must be true!!

mokryna Thu 14-Apr-22 21:42:35

Sorry just seen it on Twitter. Great!

Joseanne Thu 14-Apr-22 21:48:59

No problem mokryna. I was being very careful not to be labeled a liar or a hater, let alone a witch, on this thread! grin
I always thought Harry would make a private visit to see the Queen during his stay and of course, no announcement would be made.

grannyrebel7 Thu 14-Apr-22 21:58:32

Yes, very disrespectful Paddyanne. Shame on you! I will be so sad when the queen dies. I've never known another monarch and she's served our country so well over the years. It will be the end of an era. I hope she can make it for the Platinum Jubilee celebrations.

volver Thu 14-Apr-22 22:06:26

Those who are telling paddyann45 how ill mannered she is, might want to reflect on how tasteless it is to say you hope the queen will make it to the Jubilee or that she'll probably be gone by Christmas.

snowberryZ Thu 14-Apr-22 22:11:59

I don't agree with how they've behaved lately but I'm pleased that he's visited his grandmother.
I think at heart he's a decent person.

snowberryZ Thu 14-Apr-22 22:12:55

That's with regard to Harry and Meghan visiting the Queen

Lucca Thu 14-Apr-22 22:15:35

BlueBelle

Surely it’s expected, for anyone lucky enough still to be alive in their mid 90 to look very frail
I truly don’t understand why people feel sad she’s had a blessed and wonderful life as one of the richest women in the world
She should have a rest and let Charles and Camilla hold the reigns

Agree totally Bluebelle. Wish I could have as many years as that. I’ve nothing particularly against her but I will not feel sad, I don’t know her or feel anything for her. I’d be sad if a great figure like Attenborough died, or one of our wonderful actresses. I think she has had family troubles but who hasn’t ? I certainly would not say she had “been to hell and back”.

Callistemon21 Thu 14-Apr-22 22:18:18

I wouldn't be surprised if she's still suffering the after-effects of Covid too.

henetha Thu 14-Apr-22 22:18:45

I've huge respect for our Queen but none whatsoever for those on here who state their anti monarchy views - and of course they have every right to have their views - in such unpleasant ways.

Lucca Thu 14-Apr-22 22:21:37

Message deleted as it quotes a deleted post.

maddyone Thu 14-Apr-22 23:07:36

Lucca your comment at 22.15 in reply to Bluebelle is exactly my sentiment. I don’t wish the Queen any harm, absolutely not, but I don’t think I’ll feel sad when she goes. I do at know her, and she doesn’t know me. I felt sorry for her at Prince Philip’s funeral, but not so happy at the memorial service when Andrew accompanied her, because of Andrew. I do think I’ll feel it’s the end of an era though. I’m not usually sad when famous very old people die, I just think they had a good, long life and not everyone does.

maddyone Thu 14-Apr-22 23:08:12

I don’t know her……..

Callistemon21 Thu 14-Apr-22 23:18:00

Esspee

I am not a royalist but have great respect for the Queen. (With the exception of her continued support of Andrew).
When she goes, like paddyann, I think we should say enough is enough. Royalty is an anachronism which should be consigned to history.
Charles as king doesn’t bear thinking about.?

Yes, I think she has been stalwart and I think she'd rather have led a quite different life than the one thrust upon her.

We would have to have a referendum (unless the Royal Family abdicated in total) as I don't think we'd have the appetite for another Revolution!

However, the outcome might be different if the Scots held a referendum first and gained their independence.

Personally I think Charles would be fine.
I've heard of several who have benefited from his charities and consequenly made a success of their lives.

Ellie Anne Thu 14-Apr-22 23:31:18

I’m a Scot and have been upset too that the Queen is looking so frail. I have so much respect for her. She has served all of the UK faithfully and shown great dignity in difficult situations. Please do not lump all Scottish people together. We do not all want independence and I find the comment’ignore the Scot’s’ quite offensive.

snowberryZ Thu 14-Apr-22 23:42:02

Lucca,
It does seem to be the case that just when a thread is going well and everyone is getting on nicely, certain posters come along,and ww3 seems to break out.
Each time this happens, the same names seem to crop up each time.
I'm only pointing out what others have surely noticed as well

I would love nothing better than to be proved wrong.

Lucca Fri 15-Apr-22 02:38:23

So you want everyone to just have the same opinion ? We all love the queen and will cry when she dies ? We just post that ?

Well if that’s how threads are to be i for one would not bother visiting gransnet any more.

Total exaggeration to say ww3 breaks out and as another poster has said the “ignore the Scots” comment was offensive.

You still do not have the right to say what you did to Volver.

welbeck Fri 15-Apr-22 02:55:04

the queen seemed to indicate her left leg, when receiving some military/diplomatic big wigs a few weeks ago.
in terms of it being the impediment to her usual activity.

eazybee Fri 15-Apr-22 06:42:28

So you can take YOUR history and stick it up your...no, be nice volver

This is the comment that is course and crude.

Lucca Fri 15-Apr-22 06:56:29

Hardly surprised. Provoked by the “our history “ comment.

Allsorts Fri 15-Apr-22 06:57:23

Paddyanne, your comments are truly worthy of you.
I think the Queen, thrown into her role, has done a good job, but her relationship with her children have come at a cost, Duty first. I don’t agree with how she seemingly excuses Andrew. She has had a long happy marriage with th man she loved and however old or young you are when that person dies, you change.Yes she’s frail now but that’s how we all get with extreme old age. She understands that. I wouldn’t change my life for what she had, except I would have loved my husband to get old with me.