I retreated 3 years ago to the "spare". I still at times have to wear earplugs as his snoring goes straight thr the wall and it is a thick old wall, not one of those cardboard affairs. However the "spare" is my heaven, i redecorated in my style, i can read as late or as early as i like, i can even have a cup of tea with my kindle without annoyed grunts from DH, or -sins of sins- listen to the radio or text , phone or email at any time! Moving out of a shared bedroom is just the best thing i cld have done.
Why see it as a negative, i love my freedom and of course with it comes the decision to each clean our own!! DH now has his winter trainer bike in there, a car bike rack to hold all his bike gear, as he never liked duvets he has gone back to his one blanket with his dressing gown on top for when he gets chilly, which is hardly ever! Aestheticly pleasing it is not anylonger, and as for cleaning. .... ;-)) I just don't go there!