Quite a lot of a son's choice of partner is influenced by his mother - not just how she has brought him up, but by her personality, her relationship with him and with the rest of the family, her attitude to the world. It is not always a positive correlation, it might influence him to be attracted to a completely different type of person, to want something quite dofferent to his parents' relationship.
The same is true of a girl's father. He influences her view of men in general, either to choose men who are similar, or to avoid that type and go for another kind altogether. My own DH was very like my father in temperament, though I was consciously not aware of that at the time.
How can it be otherwise? Our parents are our first relationships with others, and for our early years, almost the only ones. We oberve them far more closely than they, or we, are aware of, and we unconsciously absorb or reject their philosophies.
Prayer ban at Katharine Birbalsingh’s school is lawful, High Court rules .