As a child DD used to write thank you letters with much reluctance, however I insisted because my rather controlling mother kept nagging me and it was easier. When she left home DD said that although she had had a lovely childhood, the one thing that spoiled her Christmases and birthdays was my insistence on thank you cards, she said that now she was in her own home there would never be another thank you card again. She claimed that as she opened her presents I would hover with a pad and pen writing down who had given what, this was true so that I could remember what she got from whom.
Her partner said that he had never written a thank you card in his life, simply saying 'thanks' as he received a gift, he reckoned I was being obsessive.
As a child in the 50s I had never heard of thank you cards but the only gift I got from afar was from an uncle who visited with a parcel and I would say 'thank you' face to face.
Nowadays if I get a gift from someone I don't see regularly I just phone them and my DD could have done this when she was a child, certainly as a teenager with her mobile. My mother however insists its an age thing and that old people like to have a card to prove they have chosen a good present and because they don't have many cards so they look forward to one in the new year to cheer themselves up. Does anyone on here look forward to a thank you card. I know my DGD will not be encouraged to write them. It may also be a middle class thing, trying to be posh I suppose. Any comments
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