Interesting reading. I have been in my house for over 35 years. I love it. It is in an idyllic village 100 metres from the Forth, overlooking Edinburgh. I stand in my shower and have the most amazing views. We have an ancient castle, an 11thC church, a brilliant school, over 40 different village clubs/societies, the best Festival in Scotland apart from the BIG one, my children were brought up here and my husband died here. There are many memories and so many reasons to stay but suddenly I feel as if I have outgrown the place. Friends have different lives now they are retired,; I feel I don't belong. I have no family within 400 miles. 4 years have passed since DH died and I have been swithering for a couple of years on whether to move or not. If so, where... 2 of my DDs want me to move south nearer them and one in Oz would like me to go there. YoungestDD plans to move back to Devon where she and SiL were at uni and where they have many friends. They want me to go with them. Friends from here are planning to move there too when they retire. Yesterday, I contacted my agent with a view to testing the market. I think, if I sell which is more than likely as both village and house are 'desirable' I will rent for a few months to get a feel for the new place wherever that may be. It's a huge step, one I can't take lightly, but I think I must do it now while I am fit and able and can find new friends and activities. I tremble at the thought.