I missed your post about your OH earning twice as much as you and you pay half towards the bills and do most of the housework and childcare. I think I would have expected more than a bottle of perfume, he does not appreciate all that you do. You really do need to have discussions about where your marriage is heading. Don't let him push you towards buying a house and moving his mother in. You could end up twice as unhappy as you are now and it will cost you a lot more to get out of this marriage if you tie yourself to a house under these circumstances. Good luck
Is there such a thing as delicious ready meals?
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.
How do you acknowledge Easter.