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Mr P has just complained about his dinner, who's right, him or me?

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phoenix Sun 09-Apr-17 18:45:11

Evening all,

Mr P is currently away from Monday morning until Friday afternoon, with no access to a kitchen and a limited budget for eating out.

So, when he IS home, I try to do reasonably healthy food.

Friday. Sweet chili chicken, bami goreng, small salad on the side.

Saturday. Grilled ribeye steak (on special offer in Lidl) jacket potato, salad.

Sunday. Chicken parcels (a chicken breast, a quality chipolata sausage on top, wrap the whole thing in bacon, bung in dish and roast) roast potatoes, cauliflower cheese (not a whole cauliflower, just cut off a few decent sized florets) leeks, mashed swede, stuffing, a few carrots for me (he's not keen on carrots confused) gravy, of course.

He says I do too many different veg, I disagree!

I prep them all, (apart from the potatoes, somehow we have got into the habit of doing them together, him peeling, me chopping ready for par boiling, while listening to the omnibus edition of the Archers blush )

I feel that he eats some pretty crap food while away, so like to feel that I'm at least giving him something halfway decent when he's at home!

BTW, he did say he enjoyed his meal, just that there was a bit too much. Didn't see anything left on the plate though.........

Caro1954 Mon 10-Apr-17 14:09:24

So it seems like we'll all be round next Sunday, Phoenix, and as it's Easter we'll expect even more veg!

angelab Mon 10-Apr-17 15:08:57

On the subject of cooking multiple veg, I remeber I used to have a device I could put into a saucepan which divided it into I think 3 sections, to keep the veg separate - does anyone know what I mean, and whether you can still get it?

Tessa101 Mon 10-Apr-17 15:21:02

Give him egg and chips next time he's home, sit back and wait for the comment.

annsixty Mon 10-Apr-17 15:37:36

Give me egg and chips with a slice of home cooked ham and I would be a very happy bunny.

callgirl1 Mon 10-Apr-17 16:08:10

angelab, I used to have one of those pans with dividers, but it went rusty. I did, however, hang on to the dividers, which fit just one of my saucepans, saves a bit of washing up!

paddyann Mon 10-Apr-17 16:18:24

if he doesn't want veg dont give him veg...problem solved.Our family have always been fussy eaters my gran ,my mum and some of my generation we were never forced to eat what we didn't like ,usually had seperate meals made for us if we wouldn't eat what everyone else had ..in my case I never have eaten fowl of any kind and when i married my husband had a long list of stuff he wouldn't eat.Never been an issue .Dont want it or dont like it then dont cook it and he wont waste it

Eloethan Mon 10-Apr-17 16:44:28

He should thank his lucky stars you make such an effort. I'm impressed.

grannylyn65 Mon 10-Apr-17 16:52:14

what is bami goreng please??

nanaK54 Mon 10-Apr-17 17:34:13

You could, of course, tell him that you will only accept complaints in writing grin

cheerfullizzy Mon 10-Apr-17 18:48:17

I too make a real effort with cooking, & recently posted a thread entitled 'anyone else's husband this difficult to understand '.....I always make every meal from scratch, with often a homemade soup to accompany, Having a Mediterranean husband, ready made meals would never suffice! After an outburst of criticism over me not making his national dish the way his family make it, I will adamantly NEVER make it again, he can damn well do it hiself.SO LADIES,..it seems we sometimes just cannot win, you Deserve to be appreciated :Phoenix....so go on strike for a few days...he knows where the kitchen is.....

Nannanoo Mon 10-Apr-17 19:51:27

Looks like you'll be having to put up extra chairs and tables next weekend phoenix! So many of us are looking forward to coming round for your excellent cooking smile

Jalima1108 Mon 10-Apr-17 20:04:06

Shall I bring a couple of chairs?

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 20:14:20

Oh you lot do make me smile!

He is actually a very good chap, and always appreciative of my efforts, perhaps I phrased my op badly!

(No one forced him to eat that last roast potato......grin)

Jalima1108 Mon 10-Apr-17 20:19:12

He would have got leftovers here tonight grin

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 20:20:15

Thread reminds me of Facebook grin

Jalima1108 Mon 10-Apr-17 20:22:07

Except people show pictures of their cooking on FBgrin
Photos next time please phoenix

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 20:28:26

Yes please.

SparklyGrandma Mon 10-Apr-17 20:37:33

Can we book with you for a Sunday dinner? You are making sure he gets enough vitamins and all the rest from the vegetables....

merlotgran Mon 10-Apr-17 20:38:35

Didn't the bacon ping open and the sausage fall off the top of the chicken breast?

Mine would have done.

Katek Mon 10-Apr-17 20:41:59

DH criticised in the kitchen for years-not so much at the content of the meal but rather my prep and methods. I was using the wrong knife, why didn't I add more stock, too many potatoes in the pan, wrong amount of water in the kettle etc etc. I snapped. Told him that he could just cook everything himself as I was fed up with the niggly criticism. He's cooked most nights since then! It's actually worked out well as he enjoys cooking and I don't.

Diddy1 Mon 10-Apr-17 20:46:32

It sounds delicious, I may be around with all the other GN who have invited themselves.

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 21:06:49

The "chicken parcels" work well when it isn't practical to do a whole chicken, for example if you don't want to spend the next few days either eating cold chicken, or preparing pie or curry!

Get a decent sized chicken breast, pat dry with kitchen roll, slap it a bit with your hand.

Firmly grasp the chipolata, and straighten it (they tend to be curved in their natural state!).

Put it on top of the chicken breast, (sometimes the sort of underside of the breast is easier, as it often has a slightly concave surface). Using rashers of streaky bacon, wrap them around the chicken/chipolata combo so that they go over and under, if that makes sense!

Sprinkle with a bit of dried sage, if liked, or pop a fresh sage leaf on the chicken before wrapping.

If you pop them in a dish where they fit reasonably closely, they should stay in one piece, but you can secure with cocktail sticks if you don't trust them!

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 21:08:22

Riveting reading.

phoenix Mon 10-Apr-17 21:16:44

I think a decision that was only half formed, has just set like concrete.

stillaliveandkicking Mon 10-Apr-17 21:27:49

Totally apologies phoenix. Maybe I just don't get people that start off with some sort of argument then it transpires that they're jovially almost going for a recipe book.