Elarev - I agree totally with Far North - your husband is being unreasonable and if you allow him via his children to sabotage your own daughter's future, you would never forgive yourself. By the sounds of it, these two children are not nice people since you say they are always giving him a hard time - do not let them win - he has made a choice to be with you and not their mother, they probably can't forgive him for that and they are probably also very jealous that you have a daughter who they see as a competitor. Knock this on the head now and tell him to sling his hook if he insists on putting his daughters who don't need this help before yours who does. I have my own daughter and two younger stepdaughters, one of whom can accept our overall family situation, and the other one who can't. She is beyond jealous, refusing to recognise that her dad has grandchildren from my daughter and continually attempting the emotional blackmail card. You will grow to despise your husband if he engages in this competition. Good luck to you - support your daughter and grandchild.
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