over60plus - I agree that your DH sounds unconcerned about you but are you sure his behaviour means he doesn't love you? Have you explained to him that his lack of interest in your health is hurtful?
The answer to his complaint that he hasn't had a cooked meal in over a week is that you will teach him how to cook meals when you're better.
While you're at it, why not teach him how to use the microwave, the washing machine or even to heat up the contents of a can of soup?
It's never too late to learn!
I started teaching DH how to cook simple meals when our children were young, graduating on to cooking fish and chicken. When I was laid up with flu years ago for over a week, no-one starved because he was able to see to everything.
My FIL had to learn these things in his seventies when MIL got macular degeneration. He had to take over the cooking and cleaning from scratch.
Be tough with your DH. He sounds like one of my uncles. My aunt spent so much of her life looking after him while he sat in a chair saying how tired he was that she died in her early seventies more or less of exhaustion. He lived to be 99!
Is that what you want for yourself?
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Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.