Your naked self is the true you.
Imagine the shock a b/f would have if, after only seeing you with a full face of slap, he woke up next to you one day and saw a totally different creature with no eyebrows, sparse eyelashes, thin pale lips and visible age spots, under-eye bags and wrinkles.
Better they get used to seeing you like that from the off.
Minimal enhancement is fine but if you need a scraper on your face and your lips look like a skating rink...it's not a good look.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!