I’d appreciate any advice on the following. I don’t have too many people I can really speak to honestly and it’s causing significant issues in my life.
My daughter has 2 boys my 2 grandsons. She had them young at 17 and 19 and is no longer with the father. She lived at home with dg no 1 for the first 2 years before moving out. We have supported her from day one in everything she does and continue to support her as wholeheartedly as we can. We have loaned money, helped her to move numerous times, purchase anything the boys need, bail her out when she’s in trouble and have the boys most weekends. Since she has been single she has taken to dating much older men and behaves quite promiscuously, continuously putting herself at risk. We are close and she tells me a lot which is how I know. I am always talking to her and trying to guide her and advise her and support her in taking care of herself but she always ignores my advice.
She is now pregnant again following a number of brief encounters with the most recent ‘man’ and I feel like I am going insane. I feel like she is on a self destruct mission with no regard for herself or anyone else. She has not been raised with these values and I just can’t figure out whether it’s something I’ve done wrong?
I feel so angry with her, yet worried and sad all at the same time. Please help!
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