And Langy11? NO, you're not being selfish either,DON'T let your son guilt-trip you,its not your fault it hasn't worked out for your son,relationship wise, and you are entitled to a life of your own,or even just some peace& quiet.its he who is being selfish,making all these plans and expecting you to go along with everything? Is it possible for you to discuss the alternate weekends plan with your GD's mother instead then? Explain you need the time for your study,you dont need to tell her your date plans,also time for your own child.(whom also may feel like their own home is being 'taken over' a bit?)
Arghh!! Moving house and conveyancing frustrations