I see the daughters side...
Favourites!
You did it for her, but now it's my turn, you don't want to!
Of course, no says you HAVE to, but come on, to out an absolute block on it is unfair, especially when you helped your other child.
I hate this sort of behaviour. I've seen it soo much. I suffered it as a foster child, and found I was punished at the slightest thing, especially if the foster person's kids said I done something, and of course, I hadn't, but I'd never be listened to.
My fiancee suffers this all the time from her.mothet.... the son can do no wrong, the grandchildren can do no wrong cz but my fiancee is always left out of everything.
My fiancee has cancer, and her mother hasn't called once in almost 6 months to ask how she is, despite my fiancee not being well enough to go down there.
When you have more than one child, you must, MUST make sure you treat both ewuslly., Otherwise it's favouritism.
Do you really need all 7 days a week to yourself? REALLY?