trying to guilt=trip people esp family members into doing things or bending to our will is not a recommendable way to live.
we can all slip into it.
and then we can decide to step out of it.
live your own life.
you do not owe anyone anything.
go about, explore, be with your partner/ friends while you can. why should your life be drudgery, and restricted because of others' life decisions.
fairness doesn't come into it. you cannot be contracted into something that wasn't discussed, far less agreed. you've done your slogging. it's your turn now. go, live. be yourself. not just a convenience for others.
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