I moved, a few yrs ago, and was about 10/15 mins from my Daughter & family,(her hubby drives& had a car.) Had moved 72 miles.Not reason i moved really. But, i still saw them not much unless we met up in town, and they rarely drove over to see me.Fast forward a few years and i'd moved to a little village area about 35mins on a bus from them, still they only visited occasionally, mainly a birthday, mothers day etc. Then daughter moved too, after awhile, to a smaller local town to me, (not to be nearer me though, just bigger house, better area) and its literally 10-12 minutes drive away (my elder son of the 2 at home,now grown up & drives) he has timed it! But still, (even before covid) we only see them if we either go there to them,or special occasion..I said i might move back again to about 80 miles away, first thing she said was "its so far away"! It beggers belief! So my advice is- stay put if you want to, and if she kicks up a fuss, just say you're too set in your ways now for the upheaval, and that she can always visit more anyway if she wants to.(easy if they have a car) or she could always be the one who moves to be near you!??