Hi everyone so I'm a mum wanting some advice and opinions from the nans
My little girl is 18 months. Mil has had her a handful of times for a couple hours, taken her for walks. She lives at the end of the street so she does get to see LO a lot, some weeks its twice another it can be 5 times. I've always hated how much she visits and the ammount of pressure ive gotten to leave little one with MIL from before she was born. Essentially this has pushed me away and made me feel weird about it.
Shes voiced that she wants to have over nights, have her alone every weekend. When I do visit them I always take her, I dont leave her. She seems to be upset about this. I do rely on my family more. For example, I got heatstroke and the aftermath of the symptoms made looking after lo difficult. my grandad picked me and lo up and I've gone to stay with then for a couple days. It gives me a break as they love playing with lo, I also get their company. No matter how old I am their company makes me feel so secure. They live 30mins away, some may say this isnt a big drive but because I dont drive and live close to a station and for them it's a long journey I only get to see them everyone weeks, I stay over for 3 days. MIL was asking why I didnt ring her for help instead, Why I dont let her have lo when I've got an appointment instead of asking my family. It's just natural for me to think of asking them first? I'm a stay at home mum so dont leave lo much anyway but when I do my first instinct is to ask my family. This seems to bother her, but she has told me before that her mum and family were the first people she went to for babysitting.
She think she doesnt get enough 1 on 1 time with lo but to me she gets to see LO a lot? She doesnt do he careing side like dinners, baths but gets to sit down and play with her. It seems that unless its alone it doesnt mean much. She would like to babysit every weekend, I dont need the help and i also dont feel comfortable after how hard and rude she has been with pressuring me to say yes. Am I being selfish. Part of me thinks I'm not and the other half does?
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