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SeaNain Tue 31-Aug-21 20:09:29

I should think this funny maybe. And i am not so mad, more embarrassed.
Today, car showroom.
H. (61) and me sit opposite the car sales man.
Attractuve 20 sometbing walks over passing by h, to pass papers to salesman.
H. (loudly) "wow"
Short paause of silence
H. "You can sell me a car anyday".
20 simething shimmers away back to her desk.
Me.( Trying think im not sat there so speechless.)
Sakesman (muttering to desk quuetly)
"she does sell a lot of cars".
Silent pause again..
Salesman (embarrased, trying not to look at both of us but focusses on the computer screen instead)
"now, where were we?"

Now pse tell me girls. I know. Men will be men. Your response would be....

Gingster Tue 31-Aug-21 20:13:15

A bit pathetic really.

Riverwalk Tue 31-Aug-21 20:13:59

I think you made this up.

SeaNain Tue 31-Aug-21 20:19:49

Riverwalk

I think you made this up.

Wishbi had. Ruverwalk. But it dud happen today and to be honest about a minute after the "now where were we" bit. I made an excuse and went outsude for some air.

FannyCornforth Tue 31-Aug-21 20:27:30

Your vowel keys seem to be all over the shop.
Fortunately, your skill with speech marks is admirably holding up.

Why did you need the fresh air?
Were you angry?
This sort of thing might be a bit ‘sweet’ with a man in their 90s, but 61?

M0nica Tue 31-Aug-21 20:28:17

How about 'Oh for heavens sake, act your age and not your shoes size'.

I would certainly have responded fast and with a put down. it is all you can do to hold your self respect. Once back home all hell would have been let loose.

FannyCornforth Tue 31-Aug-21 20:30:47

So reading back, I think that you want us to vote on whether, in that situation, we would be:

1. amused
2. angry
3. embarrassed

Is that right?

SeaNain Tue 31-Aug-21 20:34:23

FannyCornforth

Your vowel keys seem to be all over the shop.
Fortunately, your skill with speech marks is admirably holding up.

Why did you need the fresh air?
Were you angry?
This sort of thing might be a bit ‘sweet’ with a man in their 90s, but 61?

I got from gobsmacked to did that really happen, to embarassed to mad.

Callistemon Tue 31-Aug-21 20:34:32

Now pse tell me girls

Which girls would that be?

Nonogran Tue 31-Aug-21 20:37:04

I’d be soooo embarrassed. I’d have had a right go at him in the car going home. It was so non PC.
Your man’s a sexist prat & I expect the saleswoman thought the same.

kittylester Tue 31-Aug-21 20:39:23

Or any of the boys that post on this site might have an opinion.

Eviebeanz Tue 31-Aug-21 20:40:52

I would have given him a karate chop to the throat

Sago Tue 31-Aug-21 20:43:07

Did you find Bernard Manning and Benny Hill funny?

Perhaps you thought Jimmy Saville was just a bit too “ handsy”

You are either a troll or very stupid…. It’s 2021 for crying out loud.

Doodle Tue 31-Aug-21 20:48:55

In this day and age, from the sort of thing I read in the papers, he’s lucky he’s lucky she didn’t report him for sexual harassment.

Blossoming Tue 31-Aug-21 20:50:44

Eviebeanz me too. Slimy old creep.

SeaNain Tue 31-Aug-21 20:54:10

FannyCornforth

So reading back, I think that you want us to vote on whether, in that situation, we would be:

1. amused
2. angry
3. embarrassed

Is that right?

Yes please. Though I was all 3.

Eviebeanz Tue 31-Aug-21 20:54:43

Op didn't say if this is "normal for him"...

SeaNain Tue 31-Aug-21 20:56:52

I guess us Nans. It is good sometimes to ssk how others would be. Times change and I guess we all would respond differently.

SeaNain Tue 31-Aug-21 20:59:05

I was. I did. And I think you are tight, the three of us were embarrassed, me, the girl snd the salesman.

Eviebeanz Tue 31-Aug-21 21:01:42

Did you speak to your H about it later? What did he say?

Summerlove Tue 31-Aug-21 21:03:32

Yuck.

Boys will be boys is the worst.

ginny Tue 31-Aug-21 21:03:50

I’d have been extremely embarrassed and annoyed if it had been my husband . I would have told him so too.

SeaNain Tue 31-Aug-21 21:03:54

Thank you, exactly. It is 2021. I was hoping someone would think same as me. Its why i went for some air, was too embarassed.

TrendyNannie6 Tue 31-Aug-21 21:04:48

I think it was really childish to be honest, I’m sure the girl was embarrassed, I think he should have kept his thoughts to himself, I wouldn’t be very impressed,

Eviebeanz Tue 31-Aug-21 21:08:12

@SeaNain - is he like this all the time?