How would you react???

In answer to your question I think I'd just smile and congratulate them. This will leave a good memory, for you and for them, of when they told you.

It sounds like there are huge issues going on between you which won't be mended overnight, or with you questioning why they haven't told you yet.

Congratulations, by the way, lovely news

Ummm well nothing has been confirmed as yet. I did visit & there had been cold weather snap & DIL wore baggy long jumper. Nothing showing like a baby bump.
Prob not pregnant I’d say.

So I’m totally ok with either, if she is or isn’t pregnant. I was never going to show anything but obvious delight.
Remember my initial post was how would you feel ? Not asking for advice on how to behave myself.

You'll probably get advice now on whether you should get upset about how baggy her jumper is.
Glad all is well.

Thanks for the update InOzMIL. It does look like your DIL isn't pregnant, so there is nothing to tell.

Your original post asked how you should react though, not feel, which crosses into how you should behave.

I hope you enjoyed the visit and everyone was happy to be back together.

Yes totally agree. I re read my first post & did write *react & should have written *feel.
But thanks for your input.

Ah sorry, yes, my mistake too. I understood "react" as in what physical reaction would you show.