Bless you. It's tough having all the responsibility with no help and whilst being unwell yourself. My daughter is my father's primary carer as I have incurable cancer and am often quite ill. We have my DH's aunt to look after as well but she is in a home so that's easier and we have a 15yr old 'Kevin' (as in Harry Enfields character) I wish your daughter good luck for her tests. Make sure you are accessing all the available help there is and consider putting DM into a home where she'll be safe and looked after all the time. There will be times with your own health that you can't get to dm if needed. There's support on here if you want a rant, ignore people who don't support you. Bad help is worse than no help at all! x
Dr. Hilary Cass - report re trans.