I am wondering also what medication he is on bobbydog. I understand that he has always been abrupt and, for want of a better word, bossy?
A friend of ours is the sweetest man and our DD is very fond of him, but he made a couple of remarks to her when she saw him last which upset her; I said to her that I thought it was the morphine speaking and not him.
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Perhaps you should try to practise what men do ie selective hearing, put on the radio and try to tune into that and out of the incessant demands once you know that he is comfortable and settled.
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.
New house and a sloping garden