Husband with cancer taking it out on me

I am wondering also what medication he is on bobbydog. I understand that he has always been abrupt and, for want of a better word, bossy?
A friend of ours is the sweetest man and our DD is very fond of him, but he made a couple of remarks to her when she saw him last which upset her; I said to her that I thought it was the morphine speaking and not him.

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Perhaps you should try to practise what men do ie selective hearing, put on the radio and try to tune into that and out of the incessant demands once you know that he is comfortable and settled.

I do sympathise. I feel so sorry for you and your husband. You do need to look after yourself though and have some "me" time in order to cope when he is being unpleasant and tell yourself it's the illness not him.

Thank you,Tillybelle. After telling the specialist nurses that his cancer of the lung was terminal and then spread,one lady arrived.Wrote down his medication for his heart,diabetes,cancer,stood up,shook hands and said 'I will discharge you from my caseload,call us if there is anything you want,it might not be me because I am three days at uni'. All the expensive adverts on TV,of You are not alone,caring,sharing,listening,supporting. Shocked.

After posting my grumbles in June about my husband's terminal cancer, he passed away 2 weeks ago and I have this overwhelming feeling of guilt. I'd do anything to have him back giving me a hard time. I miss him so much. His passing was not peaceful and my daughter and I stayed with him until the end. The pain I feel is unbearable at times. I can't believe after 51 years together I am on my own and will never see him again.

I'm so sorry to hear your news, bobbydog.

Its still very early days for you, but when you've lost a loved one, even years feel like early days.

I'm sure you have nothing to feel guilty about; its a known stage of the grieving process to feel guilty though.

Again, my condolences to you.

My condolences to you bobbydog.

Please be kind to yourself now, you have nothing to feel guilty about. His time had come and you must think of it as a release for him and give yourself time to grieve for the man you spent a lifetime with.