So my 77yr old dad has gone into a residential home and mum has moved into supported living flat Nice lounge and kitchen with separate bedroom .
Mum won't talk about reducing contents of 3 bedrooms into 1 small flat. Keys of old property go back end of week. Mum is refusing to face things , we've moved as much furniture as we could and lots of boxes but mum and dad were hoarders.
I've suggested renting storage but mum just flares up and says hurtful things.
I'm so tired, I'm broken and can't stop crying. SW says do what we can but I'm exhausted .
Anybody been through a similar thing and what on earth can we do?
Two full days left to sort this mess ....
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